Sharon, MicheleL, WMM, Janna, DDD, Thanks for the god thoughts and prayers. We will be needing them.
Goldenguru, "Hope for the best. Be emotionally prepared for the worst". Yep that is precisely where I am at.
Sunny, Yes difficult child is on our insurance until the spring when he turns 21. He also gets a small adoption subsidy that we are using to help pay his rent. The group home will do vocational rehabilitation and get him plugged into all kinds of other supports. His caseworker there said that when his insurance and subsidy ran out maybe we can get him to qualify for SSI. We will have to wait and see. He will qualify for medical though if he is unemployed or falls below a certain income level. I am going to try to get a new and complete evaluation ASAP. NIH was interested in him a while back because of his genetic defect so i will contact them first.
-RM
