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<blockquote data-quote="Kjs" data-source="post: 265930"><p>Most of the deaths were auto accidents. One was suicide. difficult child's anxiety is always that he is afraid he is going to die. Every pain. Won't take some prescriptions for fear of a bad reaction. Such as xanax.</p><p> </p><p>He does call home when he is out with friends. Often. He will say, they are doing drugs and I don't want to be around them.</p><p> </p><p>I do drug tests. I have some from Walgreens that once in a while I pop on him. When he has blood work done at the Doctors I ask him to do a drug test.</p><p> </p><p>So far - everyone has been clean. And I know, that could change in a minute.</p><p> </p><p>He is sporting a little fuzzy dark mustache these past few weeks. And we have gotten along worse than ever. Oil and water. I say white he says black. I say hello, he says good bye. I say homework - all heck breaks loose.</p><p>Is it puberty? When will his voice change? When will he grow? and am I now in for 4+ years of not getting along?</p><p> </p><p>As far as his friend, he is very quiet. I believe he is thinking about it and his myspace says he is sad. Two of the High Schools had a moment of silence for the boy. He was a Freshman. difficult child's school did nothing. difficult child is in a very good relationship with one of his teachers. Stops by to talk about anything. She is also the Dean. (very small school). I told her he is upset about this, but don't know if he will talk or even what his thoughts are.</p><p>Some of the kids that have died these past 18 months were aquantinces.(sp?). Knew them from school, but not good friends. See them out and talk with them but nothing more. Some were friends he actually hung out with. Such as this one.</p><p> </p><p>He is terrified of dying. But for some reason, not about getting into a car. I do not want to scare him to the point he is afraid to get in a car. Just to make good judgement. And he always can call me, dad or brother, or neighbors.</p><p> </p><p>His anxiety seemed to be getting better. Until tonight. He said his entire right side is numb. Hasn't expressed feelings of dying much at all. However when I asked about feeling he is outside his body - he said that is still there. </p><p>He was taking 1/2 lexapro. Now after a month he is taking one whole pill. 10mg's.</p><p>do you think it is working?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Kjs, post: 265930"] Most of the deaths were auto accidents. One was suicide. difficult child's anxiety is always that he is afraid he is going to die. Every pain. Won't take some prescriptions for fear of a bad reaction. Such as xanax. He does call home when he is out with friends. Often. He will say, they are doing drugs and I don't want to be around them. I do drug tests. I have some from Walgreens that once in a while I pop on him. When he has blood work done at the Doctors I ask him to do a drug test. So far - everyone has been clean. And I know, that could change in a minute. He is sporting a little fuzzy dark mustache these past few weeks. And we have gotten along worse than ever. Oil and water. I say white he says black. I say hello, he says good bye. I say homework - all heck breaks loose. Is it puberty? When will his voice change? When will he grow? and am I now in for 4+ years of not getting along? As far as his friend, he is very quiet. I believe he is thinking about it and his myspace says he is sad. Two of the High Schools had a moment of silence for the boy. He was a Freshman. difficult child's school did nothing. difficult child is in a very good relationship with one of his teachers. Stops by to talk about anything. She is also the Dean. (very small school). I told her he is upset about this, but don't know if he will talk or even what his thoughts are. Some of the kids that have died these past 18 months were aquantinces.(sp?). Knew them from school, but not good friends. See them out and talk with them but nothing more. Some were friends he actually hung out with. Such as this one. He is terrified of dying. But for some reason, not about getting into a car. I do not want to scare him to the point he is afraid to get in a car. Just to make good judgement. And he always can call me, dad or brother, or neighbors. His anxiety seemed to be getting better. Until tonight. He said his entire right side is numb. Hasn't expressed feelings of dying much at all. However when I asked about feeling he is outside his body - he said that is still there. He was taking 1/2 lexapro. Now after a month he is taking one whole pill. 10mg's. do you think it is working? [/QUOTE]
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