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<blockquote data-quote="Kjs" data-source="post: 265943"><p>I don't know how to stop worrying. I don't know how to not show him how much I worry. But since last week - I quit in making decisions as to where he goes. I have always been the bad guy, which leads to fights and "I hate you". husband always says, ask your mother. AFter the horrible day last week, I told everyone, I quit. I want nothing to do with difficult child. I clarified that a bit later, stating that I no longer will make decisions on where he goes and what he does, DAD will. However, I love you, and I worry about you. Just because I am not saying yes or no does not mean I don't want to know what you are doing.</p><p> </p><p>husband just has never accepted the fact that difficult child would do anything wrong. I told husband that he lies, and now he is lying to his face and he believes him. REwarding him with sleepovers (not our house) and concerts(shows) is not right. Then husband jumps on me saying that I ASKED where he was and what he was doing so he doesn't want to make the decision because I will be mad. I again clarified it for him.</p><p> </p><p>difficult child has a very close teacher/dean at school. I informed her of this situation. She I know gets through to him. Hopefully she can do it without letting him know I initiated this. He would be angry.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Kjs, post: 265943"] I don't know how to stop worrying. I don't know how to not show him how much I worry. But since last week - I quit in making decisions as to where he goes. I have always been the bad guy, which leads to fights and "I hate you". husband always says, ask your mother. AFter the horrible day last week, I told everyone, I quit. I want nothing to do with difficult child. I clarified that a bit later, stating that I no longer will make decisions on where he goes and what he does, DAD will. However, I love you, and I worry about you. Just because I am not saying yes or no does not mean I don't want to know what you are doing. husband just has never accepted the fact that difficult child would do anything wrong. I told husband that he lies, and now he is lying to his face and he believes him. REwarding him with sleepovers (not our house) and concerts(shows) is not right. Then husband jumps on me saying that I ASKED where he was and what he was doing so he doesn't want to make the decision because I will be mad. I again clarified it for him. difficult child has a very close teacher/dean at school. I informed her of this situation. She I know gets through to him. Hopefully she can do it without letting him know I initiated this. He would be angry. [/QUOTE]
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