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<blockquote data-quote="Teri (AKA goingcrazy2)" data-source="post: 73557" data-attributes="member: 4033"><p>Wow Masta, what a terrible situation. I don't know what to tell you. My first inclination would be NOT to pay for the wedding. I mean, you've been left out entirely of the planning. </p><p></p><p>And then too, I would'nt feel comfortable with my difficult child marrying a sex offender. I realize she is 18 and it is HER choice and there is not much you can do about it. But to pay for her to actually marry this guy seems almost like condoning it. If you didn't know it would be different, of course, but you do and I think that makes a difference. </p><p></p><p>I would probably ask to sit down with her (if she would agree to this) and very frankly discuss what you know and what your concerns are. Tell her you know about his history and that you frankly don't feel that knowing what you know, that you can be part of this farce (uhm wedding). Her reaction will probably be very difficult child like, but at this point, who cares? I mean, she's marrying a sex offender and bringing a baby to the mix.</p><p></p><p>And I agree with goldengure, I would call cps once the baby is born and let them know what is going on.</p><p></p><p>((((((Hugs))))))))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Teri (AKA goingcrazy2), post: 73557, member: 4033"] Wow Masta, what a terrible situation. I don't know what to tell you. My first inclination would be NOT to pay for the wedding. I mean, you've been left out entirely of the planning. And then too, I would'nt feel comfortable with my difficult child marrying a sex offender. I realize she is 18 and it is HER choice and there is not much you can do about it. But to pay for her to actually marry this guy seems almost like condoning it. If you didn't know it would be different, of course, but you do and I think that makes a difference. I would probably ask to sit down with her (if she would agree to this) and very frankly discuss what you know and what your concerns are. Tell her you know about his history and that you frankly don't feel that knowing what you know, that you can be part of this farce (uhm wedding). Her reaction will probably be very difficult child like, but at this point, who cares? I mean, she's marrying a sex offender and bringing a baby to the mix. And I agree with goldengure, I would call cps once the baby is born and let them know what is going on. ((((((Hugs)))))))) [/QUOTE]
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