I hope he knows they want his SS# and not the actual card. That might be a good sign that he did good? They shouldn't need the number unless he is hired.
Sounds like similar situations I go through with my difficult child! I have a friend who does not have a vehicle so I like to help out by taking her out on errands. My difficult child gets very jealous of the time I spend helping that family. The "Mom, let me live my own life but make sure you keep your calendar open for my beck and call" does not go over well. I am constantly reminding him that it is my time, my choice. I will put him first if the request comes before I commit but I am not backing out of a promise to someone else.
It is all part of the teaching time management. Too bad they need to learn the hard way in lots of ways. Love the comment that he didn't think your offer included food. LOL!
