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<blockquote data-quote="hearts and roses" data-source="post: 10692" data-attributes="member: 2211"><p>The news was that on New Years eve, when her boyfriend and his friend were over, they were watching movies in difficult child's room, door open (we had friends over), difficult child fell asleep. When she woke up the boyfriend was pushing her head down towards his p.e.n.i.s, which he had whipped out. I remember difficult child running out of her room crying along with her girl friend who was over as well, and I asked what was up and she said it was nothing. I assumed that she and the boyfriend had another stupid argument. What made difficult child decide to finally tell me this is that the boyfriend told his friends that HE fell asleep and that when he woke up difficult child was "down there getting busy" and now that they have broken up, the incident the impetus of course, he's telling everyone this story. difficult child went to school today and was mortified when a guy friend of hers told her what the exbf was telling everyone. </p><p></p><p>In regards to the drinking...she had two sips of tequila mixed with sprite and was pretending to be drunk on Thurs night, and with all the drama in schoool today decided to use a hangover as not only an excuse (thinking I'd come rescue her no doubt) but also as a means to gain some attention. Ugh. </p><p></p><p>Her whole face was puffy and she'd been crying all day and when she burst into fresh tears near dinner time, I asked her what now, she said she's just so tired of her life "always being f*cked up". "Well," I said, "maybe it is good that you feel that way...you can now use this as an opportunity to do things different in your life, make better choices, etc." She shook her head yes, but I could see that wasn't the response she was looking for. All I could think of was if you keep doing the same thing, you will get the same results and told her so. It's time to change the way she does things. </p><p></p><p>But, then I had to leave at that point...H came home from work in agony - he fell 6 feet off a ladder and landed on his shoulder. Thought he broke it, but we went to the hospital and it turns out its not broken, thank God. Just a lot of pain. So, the time away gave difficult child some time to think things over I hope. She seems somber, but better. </p><p></p><p>I'm beat - thanks for the thoughts everyone. G'night~</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearts and roses, post: 10692, member: 2211"] The news was that on New Years eve, when her boyfriend and his friend were over, they were watching movies in difficult child's room, door open (we had friends over), difficult child fell asleep. When she woke up the boyfriend was pushing her head down towards his p.e.n.i.s, which he had whipped out. I remember difficult child running out of her room crying along with her girl friend who was over as well, and I asked what was up and she said it was nothing. I assumed that she and the boyfriend had another stupid argument. What made difficult child decide to finally tell me this is that the boyfriend told his friends that HE fell asleep and that when he woke up difficult child was "down there getting busy" and now that they have broken up, the incident the impetus of course, he's telling everyone this story. difficult child went to school today and was mortified when a guy friend of hers told her what the exbf was telling everyone. In regards to the drinking...she had two sips of tequila mixed with sprite and was pretending to be drunk on Thurs night, and with all the drama in schoool today decided to use a hangover as not only an excuse (thinking I'd come rescue her no doubt) but also as a means to gain some attention. Ugh. Her whole face was puffy and she'd been crying all day and when she burst into fresh tears near dinner time, I asked her what now, she said she's just so tired of her life "always being f*cked up". "Well," I said, "maybe it is good that you feel that way...you can now use this as an opportunity to do things different in your life, make better choices, etc." She shook her head yes, but I could see that wasn't the response she was looking for. All I could think of was if you keep doing the same thing, you will get the same results and told her so. It's time to change the way she does things. But, then I had to leave at that point...H came home from work in agony - he fell 6 feet off a ladder and landed on his shoulder. Thought he broke it, but we went to the hospital and it turns out its not broken, thank God. Just a lot of pain. So, the time away gave difficult child some time to think things over I hope. She seems somber, but better. I'm beat - thanks for the thoughts everyone. G'night~ [/QUOTE]
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