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<blockquote data-quote="Nomad" data-source="post: 165766"><p>Thank you everyone...your comments have been helpful.</p><p> </p><p>difficult child was released from the hospital after a few hours. I spoke with the Dr. and told him about the wedding and convinced him to speed things up a little.</p><p>We went back to her apartment and took everything of value. We brought difficult child back to the house and called our son and his fiance to watch difficult child while we went to the wedding. I had 30 minutes to get dressed! It was semi formal and I'm not sure I was dressed totally appropriately...but was thrilled to be there! Our plan is to take difficult child back to the apartment during the days and bring her home at night. Either husband or I will see what we can find out about an eviction notice. The girl claims she is awaiting a plane ticket and will move out at the end of the week. IT's hard to say how accurate this is.</p><p> </p><p>When I took difficult child to lunch on Friday and asked her why she had strangers in her apartment she said "Mom, you should be proud of me. It's been many months since I have done something like this. When I first moved into an apartment, I had people in my place all the time." She feels like this is an improvement. I'm not sure I fully follow her logic. We are not sure if she forgets all the turmoil these situations get her in and then repeats them or what. It is good that she seems "slower" to repeat this mistake...but nevertheless, it is sad and very concerning that she repeats them at all. </p><p> </p><p>The police were adamant that it will take an eviction notice to get the girl out. They said we needed to go to the courthouse to get it. We do wonder if the Landlord is really the one that needs to do this...but would rather do it on our own and not involve the Landlord. We also wonder if the girl would have 30 days, etc. So...next week we plan on going to the courthouse to see what we can do. </p><p> </p><p>The day was VERY difficult...but improved greatly later on. Having our daughter secure at home and her "stuff" secure too calmed things down. Going to the wedding was also very helpful. I'm not sure what the coming days will bring...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nomad, post: 165766"] Thank you everyone...your comments have been helpful. difficult child was released from the hospital after a few hours. I spoke with the Dr. and told him about the wedding and convinced him to speed things up a little. We went back to her apartment and took everything of value. We brought difficult child back to the house and called our son and his fiance to watch difficult child while we went to the wedding. I had 30 minutes to get dressed! It was semi formal and I'm not sure I was dressed totally appropriately...but was thrilled to be there! Our plan is to take difficult child back to the apartment during the days and bring her home at night. Either husband or I will see what we can find out about an eviction notice. The girl claims she is awaiting a plane ticket and will move out at the end of the week. IT's hard to say how accurate this is. When I took difficult child to lunch on Friday and asked her why she had strangers in her apartment she said "Mom, you should be proud of me. It's been many months since I have done something like this. When I first moved into an apartment, I had people in my place all the time." She feels like this is an improvement. I'm not sure I fully follow her logic. We are not sure if she forgets all the turmoil these situations get her in and then repeats them or what. It is good that she seems "slower" to repeat this mistake...but nevertheless, it is sad and very concerning that she repeats them at all. The police were adamant that it will take an eviction notice to get the girl out. They said we needed to go to the courthouse to get it. We do wonder if the Landlord is really the one that needs to do this...but would rather do it on our own and not involve the Landlord. We also wonder if the girl would have 30 days, etc. So...next week we plan on going to the courthouse to see what we can do. The day was VERY difficult...but improved greatly later on. Having our daughter secure at home and her "stuff" secure too calmed things down. Going to the wedding was also very helpful. I'm not sure what the coming days will bring... [/QUOTE]
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