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<blockquote data-quote="dreamer" data-source="post: 165857" data-attributes="member: 1697"><p>OK a bazillion years ago (ok um, make that like almost 30 yrs ago?) I um...had this.....boyfriend, more by his stalking than by my choice.....and i had him arrested and he was in prison due to me haveing him arrested-----I moved away..and one nite I came home to find him IN my apartment, watching my TV....</p><p>I called police, and police came and said they could not make this stalker leave becuz he had been paroled to my house. Hmm, I never gave any permission for such a thing, I moved and thought I had kept my location secret. </p><p></p><p>Over the years I have heard some awful stories from people about trying to get rid of unwanted guests and or tenants. Seems the laws vary widely state by state and even county by county and town by town etc. </p><p></p><p>Also seems local police usually do not want to get in the middle of such problems....</p><p>Here where I live, such things are handled at county level by county police, and our local town police do not even KNOW what the laws are etc. Sadly, I have heard and read of similar situations as this....where people come in as guests and then refuse to leave. I also know here, you cannot have x number of people in y sq feet of space, and you also cannot have z number of unrelated persons in one dwelling. so- haveing that many persons in an efficiency apt just by itself would be in violation of law, and then becuz the friend is not related...that would be another violation.....and many leases I have seen prohbit overnite guests or the length of time overnite guests can stay or how many overnite guests there can be-----and then, if difficult child was not there, I have seen some leases say that would be a violation, becuz the person who rented the unit has to be there if anyone else is in there. </p><p></p><p>I am sorry it is such a mess, hopefully your difficult child will learn from this incident. Sometimes it takes an incident for our difficult children to learn something. Experience can be the best teacher. </p><p></p><p>But do be aware I am pretty sure this is one of those kinds of laws that can vary very very much from place to place......and nope, here by me, getting a gun out? oh man, that would amp up the problems for the person with the gun.....it would not matter if someone was uninvited in the home, the person with the gun would be faceing serious heavy duty nasty charges. It just happened here recently........twice......caused a huge public outrage but, the courts so far are upholding that nope, haveing the gun was more wrong than anything else was. <sigh></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="dreamer, post: 165857, member: 1697"] OK a bazillion years ago (ok um, make that like almost 30 yrs ago?) I um...had this.....boyfriend, more by his stalking than by my choice.....and i had him arrested and he was in prison due to me haveing him arrested-----I moved away..and one nite I came home to find him IN my apartment, watching my TV.... I called police, and police came and said they could not make this stalker leave becuz he had been paroled to my house. Hmm, I never gave any permission for such a thing, I moved and thought I had kept my location secret. Over the years I have heard some awful stories from people about trying to get rid of unwanted guests and or tenants. Seems the laws vary widely state by state and even county by county and town by town etc. Also seems local police usually do not want to get in the middle of such problems.... Here where I live, such things are handled at county level by county police, and our local town police do not even KNOW what the laws are etc. Sadly, I have heard and read of similar situations as this....where people come in as guests and then refuse to leave. I also know here, you cannot have x number of people in y sq feet of space, and you also cannot have z number of unrelated persons in one dwelling. so- haveing that many persons in an efficiency apt just by itself would be in violation of law, and then becuz the friend is not related...that would be another violation.....and many leases I have seen prohbit overnite guests or the length of time overnite guests can stay or how many overnite guests there can be-----and then, if difficult child was not there, I have seen some leases say that would be a violation, becuz the person who rented the unit has to be there if anyone else is in there. I am sorry it is such a mess, hopefully your difficult child will learn from this incident. Sometimes it takes an incident for our difficult children to learn something. Experience can be the best teacher. But do be aware I am pretty sure this is one of those kinds of laws that can vary very very much from place to place......and nope, here by me, getting a gun out? oh man, that would amp up the problems for the person with the gun.....it would not matter if someone was uninvited in the home, the person with the gun would be faceing serious heavy duty nasty charges. It just happened here recently........twice......caused a huge public outrage but, the courts so far are upholding that nope, haveing the gun was more wrong than anything else was. <sigh> [/QUOTE]
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