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difficult child - in a desert with a horse with no name
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<blockquote data-quote="Marguerite" data-source="post: 190326" data-attributes="member: 1991"><p>Steely, he's 17. He's a big boy now. He needs to do this. You need him out of your house. This is really good, that you've been able to organise this for him. I am glad for you. </p><p></p><p>He's not been in hospital long, and he held it together during that time. OK, he will have longer on the ranch, someone has to see something that can get him some help. In the meantime, you will be safe.</p><p></p><p>It's good that he talked about his feelings and missing H. You've been immersed in your own grief (understandable) but he has grief that has to be expressed too. For whatever reason - maybe he didn't want to express it as much because he didn't want to add to your distress? Or maybe he didn't feel enough. I don't know - but he's expressed it now, and that has to have released some of the pressure he's been feeling.</p><p></p><p>I hope this really does help him. It does buy you both some time to find some future directions for you both.</p><p></p><p>Marg</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Marguerite, post: 190326, member: 1991"] Steely, he's 17. He's a big boy now. He needs to do this. You need him out of your house. This is really good, that you've been able to organise this for him. I am glad for you. He's not been in hospital long, and he held it together during that time. OK, he will have longer on the ranch, someone has to see something that can get him some help. In the meantime, you will be safe. It's good that he talked about his feelings and missing H. You've been immersed in your own grief (understandable) but he has grief that has to be expressed too. For whatever reason - maybe he didn't want to express it as much because he didn't want to add to your distress? Or maybe he didn't feel enough. I don't know - but he's expressed it now, and that has to have released some of the pressure he's been feeling. I hope this really does help him. It does buy you both some time to find some future directions for you both. Marg [/QUOTE]
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