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Jen,

I am jumping on the detachment bandwagon.  He is an adult.  Let him take care of himself and his family.

As far as the note being addressed to you by name instead of mom ~ I would tear it up.  If he asks about it, I would tell him that you are not going to read anything that does not treat you with the respect you are due as his mother.

Stay strong.

~Kathy