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difficult child is back in jail....and God it is depressing
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<blockquote data-quote="Hopingforthe best" data-source="post: 621613" data-attributes="member: 12294"><p>Hey guys, I just wanted to come back to thank you and also let you know that i am feeling better than i did yesterday. Reading your experiences and the support you have offered me is helping me more than you will ever know. I know it won't be easy but i have decided that i have to let go fear and keep pushing. Yesterday, i joined some friends from church to visit a fellow member who has been very sick and it really forced me to put things into perspective. Like Mwm said, at least i know where difficult child is and furthermore he is not sick. That alone is something to be thankful. I also know that no matter what happens, he won't be in jail forever. </p><p></p><p>Later today i talked to difficult child's lawyer who told me that it was the whole block where difficult child is held that was on lock down and not him so that too was a relief.difficult child also confirmed it in a letter i received in the evening. I thought i would post his here and you guys can tell me what you think about it and/or whether it is pure manipulation. Here it is:</p><p></p><p>"Hey mom,</p><p>How are doing? I am fine in here just the same old. I miss you a lot. The whole block is on lock down because there has been a lot of fights and a CO was injured. I am not sure when they will let us out and we can't use the phone so i am guessing the next time i will see you is during the hearing. I am so sorry for the heartache i have caused you mom. I hope you are doing good and you are eating well. Please cook some food and don't just eat "sandwiches" every night. </p><p>Did you talk to .....(his lawyer)? What did she say? I am willing to go to jail if they can terminate this probation. Don't stress too much mom because i put myself in this predicament. You have always done everything you can for me and its time you start taking care of yourself. Also see if you can help withdraw my classes for me at....(the college he was registered) that would help me get withdrawals instead of f. </p><p>I love you very much mom even though i don't show it sometimes. Don't blame yourself for my actions because its not your fault.</p><p></p><p>With lots of love from your son.........</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hopingforthe best, post: 621613, member: 12294"] Hey guys, I just wanted to come back to thank you and also let you know that i am feeling better than i did yesterday. Reading your experiences and the support you have offered me is helping me more than you will ever know. I know it won't be easy but i have decided that i have to let go fear and keep pushing. Yesterday, i joined some friends from church to visit a fellow member who has been very sick and it really forced me to put things into perspective. Like Mwm said, at least i know where difficult child is and furthermore he is not sick. That alone is something to be thankful. I also know that no matter what happens, he won't be in jail forever. Later today i talked to difficult child's lawyer who told me that it was the whole block where difficult child is held that was on lock down and not him so that too was a relief.difficult child also confirmed it in a letter i received in the evening. I thought i would post his here and you guys can tell me what you think about it and/or whether it is pure manipulation. Here it is: "Hey mom, How are doing? I am fine in here just the same old. I miss you a lot. The whole block is on lock down because there has been a lot of fights and a CO was injured. I am not sure when they will let us out and we can't use the phone so i am guessing the next time i will see you is during the hearing. I am so sorry for the heartache i have caused you mom. I hope you are doing good and you are eating well. Please cook some food and don't just eat "sandwiches" every night. Did you talk to .....(his lawyer)? What did she say? I am willing to go to jail if they can terminate this probation. Don't stress too much mom because i put myself in this predicament. You have always done everything you can for me and its time you start taking care of yourself. Also see if you can help withdraw my classes for me at....(the college he was registered) that would help me get withdrawals instead of f. I love you very much mom even though i don't show it sometimes. Don't blame yourself for my actions because its not your fault. With lots of love from your son......... [/QUOTE]
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