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MWM you are right. She knows even now that my mom and dad will give her anything I don't. Basically I have cut her off and am only giving her whatever we are eating and a place to live. She has two weeks to get that job or enrolled in school and then if there is no change she will be going back to KY. It's not much of a threat though because she has her car there. I could find a way to change that but I was hoping to hold onto that car for easy child so I don't know that I want to sell it. I guess I could put her on a plane home and ship the car on a flatbed to me. The only negative to moving back to the grands is the old Boyfriend is there and she wants to avoid him at all cost.

 

I am willing to let her borrow the car for job hunting but the going to her friends and staying out all night is not going to fly. We will see how seriously she takes the ultimatum and go from there. I have given her minimal support to keep her above water while she was in school or working but that will not continue if she isn't doing anything.

 


 

Right now this is my major bone of contention. Her inability to take responsibility for her actions and her constant need to blame me for them. I have no comprehension of how someone can be in another state more than half way across the country selling her clothing to pay bills and blame me for it. If it wasn't so hurtful I would laugh at it. Heck who am I kidding I do laugh at it even now.

 

Basically I dont know if I can completely cut her off. I can on the other hand make her life very skimpy.


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