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<blockquote data-quote="Andy" data-source="post: 252077" data-attributes="member: 5096"><p>Do whatever you need to to stay safe. If it means another ER visit and back to psychiatric hospital to get him out of the house then so be it. The sooner he returns to the psychiatric hospital, the better it is for that staff to see the errors of their ways. Appearring stable may just be part of the game. difficult child can hold it together when he is OUTSIDE of the home. He doesn't have his targets to attack. It will take him longer at a new place to establish new targets for staff to evaluate what is really going on. If he has a need to control you and your household, he will develop that need whereever he is placed. Maybe the mental health clinic and the insurance company will "get it" sooner if there are numerous crisis calls?</p><p> </p><p>You were given that number to keep everyone safe - even difficult child. You know that his stories are large and he will try to convince everyone that he is the victim. As long as he remains the victim, he will never get the help he needs. Everyone will believe the poor child until you can supply enough evidence otherwise - that is where that crisis number comes into play. </p><p> </p><p>Keep easy child away as much as possible. He is suffering so much also!</p><p> </p><p>Keep documenting. Document EVERYTHING, even the tension in the house. List who is on edge and why (if you know). List everyone's fears and concerns. Record every action you and husband and difficult child takes.</p><p> </p><p>Above all - STAY SAFE!!!! Use that number!!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Andy, post: 252077, member: 5096"] Do whatever you need to to stay safe. If it means another ER visit and back to psychiatric hospital to get him out of the house then so be it. The sooner he returns to the psychiatric hospital, the better it is for that staff to see the errors of their ways. Appearring stable may just be part of the game. difficult child can hold it together when he is OUTSIDE of the home. He doesn't have his targets to attack. It will take him longer at a new place to establish new targets for staff to evaluate what is really going on. If he has a need to control you and your household, he will develop that need whereever he is placed. Maybe the mental health clinic and the insurance company will "get it" sooner if there are numerous crisis calls? You were given that number to keep everyone safe - even difficult child. You know that his stories are large and he will try to convince everyone that he is the victim. As long as he remains the victim, he will never get the help he needs. Everyone will believe the poor child until you can supply enough evidence otherwise - that is where that crisis number comes into play. Keep easy child away as much as possible. He is suffering so much also! Keep documenting. Document EVERYTHING, even the tension in the house. List who is on edge and why (if you know). List everyone's fears and concerns. Record every action you and husband and difficult child takes. Above all - STAY SAFE!!!! Use that number!!! [/QUOTE]
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