My son also has ADHD,along with sleep issues and had a sleep test done which showed his aggression. doctors want to sort out ADHD and the medications then add his ODD ( make sure) and Im thinking Bipolar and or something else. My son has not gotten at trouble ( well talking out of turn at times or not turning in H.W getting out of seat yes but thats it) at school like your son, but at home, stores with family and friends yes trouble.. One minute my son is happy and the most amazing child ever, then something makes him mad-anything and he is bossy, defiant, angry, demanding,violent and says he wants to kill us or wishes we were dead, calls us dumbo and idiot etc. He has gotten verbally mean with family and some neighborhood kids too. Always blames others too, times outs never work with my son, going to his room rarely works, spankings, been there just makes him even more angrier and frankly I hated spanking him, really makes to sense to spank a child. I grew up that way to, been told only if I this or that. I get it!!!
Im so sorry your going through this. Is your son on any medications or diet changes? Hows he sleep? Is he ever "sorry" he says these things or is it forced apologies? Hugs and hang in there.. Have you tried taking everything away and have him earn it back?
