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difficult child lost her job and wants us to "lend" her money . . .
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 359850" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Kathy, why not suggest your husband come here? He could be "Kathy's Man" and maybe if we could talk more of the dad's into coming eventually they could have their own forum, "guy talk" or "dad's view" or whatever.</p><p></p><p>Dads do have a harder time with daus. My own dad will do all kinds of stuff for me - not that I expect him to but it is appreciated. </p><p></p><p>I don't think your daughter is capable of appreciation or of honesty at this point. Keep supporting your husband so he does not slip. Would changing your phone numbers be a good idea? That way she couldn't keep texting and calling. Cause you don't HAVE to open the door when she rings the bell.</p><p></p><p>Or maybe block her number if your phone has that service. It is easier to keep saying no if you don't even know she is asking.</p><p></p><p>I am so sorry she isn't capable of comprehending that her actions mean that you no longer are willing to help her in any way, that your refusal is because she has stolen from and cheated you so many times. If you continue to stand up and say no, to refuse to be drawn in to her conflama, hopefully she will eventually get it.</p><p></p><p>I guess I am thinking of blocking her number or changing your numbers as being sort of the same preventative measure as Witz not having a second bed in her home so that her kids won't ask to come stay with her.</p><p></p><p>Whatever you do, I hope that you manage to keep out of her drama and that someday she will treat you with the respect and real love you deserve.</p><p></p><p>((((((((((hugs))))))))))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 359850, member: 1233"] Kathy, why not suggest your husband come here? He could be "Kathy's Man" and maybe if we could talk more of the dad's into coming eventually they could have their own forum, "guy talk" or "dad's view" or whatever. Dads do have a harder time with daus. My own dad will do all kinds of stuff for me - not that I expect him to but it is appreciated. I don't think your daughter is capable of appreciation or of honesty at this point. Keep supporting your husband so he does not slip. Would changing your phone numbers be a good idea? That way she couldn't keep texting and calling. Cause you don't HAVE to open the door when she rings the bell. Or maybe block her number if your phone has that service. It is easier to keep saying no if you don't even know she is asking. I am so sorry she isn't capable of comprehending that her actions mean that you no longer are willing to help her in any way, that your refusal is because she has stolen from and cheated you so many times. If you continue to stand up and say no, to refuse to be drawn in to her conflama, hopefully she will eventually get it. I guess I am thinking of blocking her number or changing your numbers as being sort of the same preventative measure as Witz not having a second bed in her home so that her kids won't ask to come stay with her. Whatever you do, I hope that you manage to keep out of her drama and that someday she will treat you with the respect and real love you deserve. ((((((((((hugs)))))))))) [/QUOTE]
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