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difficult child managed to overstay her welcome....again....
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<blockquote data-quote="rejectedmom" data-source="post: 390446" data-attributes="member: 2315"><p>Actually I think maybe your mom should refuse to teke her in and let DSS take over. If she were 18 you could just send her to a shelter but not when they are underaged. Maybe if your difficult child realizes that people do not have to help her, especially if she isn't helping herself, she will make the necessary changes. I have walked a long hard road with my difficult child and know that as long as they think they can manipulate people or situations they will. Your mother is kind hearted but in my humble opinion letting her come back is enabling. I know this is hard. I know it is even harder for the older generation who just want to see their loved ones at peace and doing well. But your difficult child isn't getting it and she continues to use people and complain when things don't suit her rather than help herself. -RM</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="rejectedmom, post: 390446, member: 2315"] Actually I think maybe your mom should refuse to teke her in and let DSS take over. If she were 18 you could just send her to a shelter but not when they are underaged. Maybe if your difficult child realizes that people do not have to help her, especially if she isn't helping herself, she will make the necessary changes. I have walked a long hard road with my difficult child and know that as long as they think they can manipulate people or situations they will. Your mother is kind hearted but in my humble opinion letting her come back is enabling. I know this is hard. I know it is even harder for the older generation who just want to see their loved ones at peace and doing well. But your difficult child isn't getting it and she continues to use people and complain when things don't suit her rather than help herself. -RM [/QUOTE]
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