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Thank you for your responses.


My husband and I for the most part agree on how we deal with difficult child. We made a decision quite a few years ago that we were done helping him. The only reason I agreed to help this time is for him to have an ID which he does need and the only way to get one is with a copy of a certified birth certificate which can only be ordered by the person or parent but you must provide ID to get a copy. Once I get it I will mail it to him via a friend of his. I will send it certified to verify it's signed for and I will enclose a note to him that if he loses this one that's it and my husband agrees. My husband and I have done nothing for him for several years now. We both let him know a long time ago to not bother asking us for money or anything else as the answer would be no. I really do hope that he is tired of being homeless and that he will start to put his life back together. I of course have guarded optimism.


This small gesture of helping him by no means is opening a door to help him more and that my husband and I both agree on.


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