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<blockquote data-quote="InsaneCdn" data-source="post: 541996" data-attributes="member: 11791"><p>Wish I had some creative solution for lighting something under your husband's butt and/or brain.</p><p>Because... husband is a major part of the problem. As in, husband needs help more than difficult child does right now. </p><p></p><p>To your husband (not that he will listen to me, but...) Git yer blank-in head out of that sandhill, and... open your eyes, GET the picture. Then go look in the mirror and figure out what you have to change about YOU, to change the situation.</p><p></p><p>I was reading in an Autism book again today - our difficult child is NOT on the spectrum, but I keep finding useful stuff in unusual situations. Bottom line: Every behaviour happens for a reason. It is some combination of the difficult child, the environment, and the people involved... always, all THREE. If you want to help difficult child change, you have to manage change to both the environment and to the people in his life. And yes it works. But "Mom" and "Dad" HAVE to be on the same page for it to work. Because: "Mom" can't change "Dad" any more than "Dad" can change "Mom".</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="InsaneCdn, post: 541996, member: 11791"] Wish I had some creative solution for lighting something under your husband's butt and/or brain. Because... husband is a major part of the problem. As in, husband needs help more than difficult child does right now. To your husband (not that he will listen to me, but...) Git yer blank-in head out of that sandhill, and... open your eyes, GET the picture. Then go look in the mirror and figure out what you have to change about YOU, to change the situation. I was reading in an Autism book again today - our difficult child is NOT on the spectrum, but I keep finding useful stuff in unusual situations. Bottom line: Every behaviour happens for a reason. It is some combination of the difficult child, the environment, and the people involved... always, all THREE. If you want to help difficult child change, you have to manage change to both the environment and to the people in his life. And yes it works. But "Mom" and "Dad" HAVE to be on the same page for it to work. Because: "Mom" can't change "Dad" any more than "Dad" can change "Mom". [/QUOTE]
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