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husband went to visit difficult child at the prison today to ask about some of his ideas  on places for rehab when he gets out but was told difficult child could have no visitors.  When husband asked why he was told that difficult child "did something very stupid" and is now in isolation.  The guard would not tell husband what difficult child did.  So I am thinking that he probably just blew his chance at parole.  His hearing was scheduled for FEB. 14th and not having access to a telephone due to being in isolation difficult child can't make any of the calls he needs to make. 


I just don't know what to think.  some of the thoughts flying around in my head are: 1)Is difficult child so stressed he cannot control himself?  2)They are messing with his medications again because he had a seizure. they took him off the thorizine so could that have precipated this last infraction?  3)Is this a sign that he isn't ready to get out or 4) is this a sign that we should get him out ASAP and into another Residential Treatment Center (RTC) where his medications and treatment will be carried out effectively and not haphazardly? 


I hate when they don't allow husband to see him.  I am always thinking the worst. I wonder if they have beat difficult child. Is he bruised and they don't want us to see that.  All kinds of wild thoughts in my head. -RM


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