Hi Jo,
nothing I said or did made any difference with difficult child 1, nor did anything her therapist said--they talked about all the emotional issues, all that stuff, blah, blah, blah...just didn't matter, she did what she wanted to do. I think she started having sex when she was about 13. She's been pregnant 3 times in the last year but miscarried each time (she was supposed to be on the pill but obviously wasn't taking it). Since mine just turned 19 and is not living with me I just say, c'est la vie and hope for the best. I hated those years before she moved out!
Thinking of you,
Jane
