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<blockquote data-quote="hearts and roses" data-source="post: 48291" data-attributes="member: 2211"><p>Thanks again everyone. I've decided that I will no longer rread her stuff, even if it is left out in the open. It sends me into a tailspin and I can't have that anymore. </p><p></p><p>I wrote difficult child a long letter about all the same things we've discussed over and over and over again throughout her life. She said she read it, told me she loves me and that she didn't feel the need to discuss it any further. That tells me that I am talking to a wall. Perhaps I worded it differently and she's actually listened to at least a small portion of what I've said.</p><p></p><p>As I said earlier, she already had the round of HPV shots, the third one is in august. However, mattsmom, I will definitely ask about the IUD. I don't know why I didn't think of that - I think I recall hearing that there were issues with it. I think it can stay in her for up to 5 years and it is supposedly less of a risk as it was back in the 70's. I will check into that. Thanks for the idea!</p><p></p><p>NOmad - no need to bring in another person - talking has never been an issue for any of us, it's just not uncomfortable in our family. We've always been a "let it all out" kind of family. However, the school nurse did address these topics with difficult child in the Fall, so at least she has heard it from someone other than H, easy child and me. </p><p></p><p>Like branbran said, what else can I do? I guess it's time for me to let go of this - I've gone over everything with her a million times. If she is heck bent on doing what she wants, then she will do what she wants.</p><p></p><p>Thanks for the hugs!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearts and roses, post: 48291, member: 2211"] Thanks again everyone. I've decided that I will no longer rread her stuff, even if it is left out in the open. It sends me into a tailspin and I can't have that anymore. I wrote difficult child a long letter about all the same things we've discussed over and over and over again throughout her life. She said she read it, told me she loves me and that she didn't feel the need to discuss it any further. That tells me that I am talking to a wall. Perhaps I worded it differently and she's actually listened to at least a small portion of what I've said. As I said earlier, she already had the round of HPV shots, the third one is in august. However, mattsmom, I will definitely ask about the IUD. I don't know why I didn't think of that - I think I recall hearing that there were issues with it. I think it can stay in her for up to 5 years and it is supposedly less of a risk as it was back in the 70's. I will check into that. Thanks for the idea! NOmad - no need to bring in another person - talking has never been an issue for any of us, it's just not uncomfortable in our family. We've always been a "let it all out" kind of family. However, the school nurse did address these topics with difficult child in the Fall, so at least she has heard it from someone other than H, easy child and me. Like branbran said, what else can I do? I guess it's time for me to let go of this - I've gone over everything with her a million times. If she is heck bent on doing what she wants, then she will do what she wants. Thanks for the hugs! [/QUOTE]
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