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difficult child too disruptive, put to sick leave and coming home for few days
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<blockquote data-quote="SuZir" data-source="post: 583293" data-attributes="member: 14557"><p>gsingjane: Long story short: We are European, so different sport system here. difficult child plays for adult pro team and is done with school for now. He lives three hours from us together with his girlfriend. He is still junior aged and because having quite a sophomore slump this fall (last season was his first at pros, he did very well then) he even played few games on his pro teams own junior team this season. But after Christmas he has been doing better again at field. Problems are now more off the field. He has had quite a lot of problems before and his team has helped him work through those. Our newest issue is, that few weeks ago something traumatic for difficult child came up. It happened few years ago (and has certainly been a big contributor to his issues since), but we didn't know about it. Now it is more or less out in the open (luckily still only at rumour mill, we fear it may end up to publicity some day) and we are dealing with ramifications of that. difficult child does have different (mostly stricter) rules than most of his team mates for several reasons and they were just made even more strict to help him deal with this crisis. We do believe it is good for difficult child, but he doesn't like it. And that is not really required either. And it is not only difficult child who has difficulties copying with this issue. It is huge also for me and my husband. You always want to protect your child from big bad world and when you learn you have been an utter failure in that... Well, it is not easy.</p><p></p><p>Anyway, difficult child is now home and watching tv. And being very obnoxious. easy child luckily did take a hint and is at the library and husband also left. He was here when we came and really didn't help situation. It wasn't so much what he said or even didn't said but his non-verbal communication. He is frustrated and difficult child annoyed him in purpose. I have to say that first time ever it came to my mind that it could turn to physical altercation. I'm one of those people who always subconsciously checks exit routes in case of fire etc. and now I noticed myself planning for the possibility that husband and difficult child would end up with the fight. And that is a scary thought, none of my guys are petite and it could get really ugly. I'm sure neither husband or difficult child even thought it could end up into fight, especially when they were not even arguing that much. But husband is so overbearing and dominating with him and difficult child is so very angry that it came to my mind that someday difficult child may not back off any more.</p><p></p><p>And he is certainly trying to pick up a fight with me. Pushing my buttons like no one else can and I'm counting up and down to thousand the third time already and he has been home less than two hours now.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SuZir, post: 583293, member: 14557"] gsingjane: Long story short: We are European, so different sport system here. difficult child plays for adult pro team and is done with school for now. He lives three hours from us together with his girlfriend. He is still junior aged and because having quite a sophomore slump this fall (last season was his first at pros, he did very well then) he even played few games on his pro teams own junior team this season. But after Christmas he has been doing better again at field. Problems are now more off the field. He has had quite a lot of problems before and his team has helped him work through those. Our newest issue is, that few weeks ago something traumatic for difficult child came up. It happened few years ago (and has certainly been a big contributor to his issues since), but we didn't know about it. Now it is more or less out in the open (luckily still only at rumour mill, we fear it may end up to publicity some day) and we are dealing with ramifications of that. difficult child does have different (mostly stricter) rules than most of his team mates for several reasons and they were just made even more strict to help him deal with this crisis. We do believe it is good for difficult child, but he doesn't like it. And that is not really required either. And it is not only difficult child who has difficulties copying with this issue. It is huge also for me and my husband. You always want to protect your child from big bad world and when you learn you have been an utter failure in that... Well, it is not easy. Anyway, difficult child is now home and watching tv. And being very obnoxious. easy child luckily did take a hint and is at the library and husband also left. He was here when we came and really didn't help situation. It wasn't so much what he said or even didn't said but his non-verbal communication. He is frustrated and difficult child annoyed him in purpose. I have to say that first time ever it came to my mind that it could turn to physical altercation. I'm one of those people who always subconsciously checks exit routes in case of fire etc. and now I noticed myself planning for the possibility that husband and difficult child would end up with the fight. And that is a scary thought, none of my guys are petite and it could get really ugly. I'm sure neither husband or difficult child even thought it could end up into fight, especially when they were not even arguing that much. But husband is so overbearing and dominating with him and difficult child is so very angry that it came to my mind that someday difficult child may not back off any more. And he is certainly trying to pick up a fight with me. Pushing my buttons like no one else can and I'm counting up and down to thousand the third time already and he has been home less than two hours now. [/QUOTE]
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