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Don't feel quilty. I know you are sad. Mine was in jail for 23 days, and I never went to see him or talked to him on the phone. I wish I had used the juvinile system way back when I had a chance and maybe he wouldn't be a felon now. Maybe the Residential Treatment Center (RTC) can do something to help your son with his issues. You could use the opportunity to work with your younger son on his coping skills. Living with a difficult child is hard.