I'm going to take a slightly opposing view. I don't think you were wrong, but I would have let her use the bathroom, without question, then sent her back outside. Other than that, I think you did fine. I'm not aware of your situation with bios (can barely keep up with my own kids let alone all those on the board), but bio. visits can be very stressful on kids, but it sounds like it all turned out well. Don't second guess yourself. If this happens again, do it like you did this time or let her in to pee and kick her out again :smile: Great that it all worked out!
