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difficult child's anxiety's growing, any ideas?
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<blockquote data-quote="lizzie09" data-source="post: 229508" data-attributes="member: 8006"><p>Hello Jen</p><p> </p><p>I had my four sons within 7 years so for a long time it was a full time job.</p><p>I did go back to my old job between the birth of my first son difficult child and the second boy who was born 13mths after first. 1986/1987</p><p>My father who had been living alone and was quite elderly at that stage came to live with us and whilst he was a gentleman it caused tension with husband and I. This made added difficulties to my situation and then 2yrs later 3rd son came along and we are back to square one again with my fathers health going slowly down hill</p><p>My dad dies in 1991 and I had son no 4 in 1993. 7 yrs gap between him and difficult child.</p><p>By the time I got No 4 tp school all kinds of mini difficulties were emerging with difficult child and then his diagnosis (PWS) came up when he was 11 so that was quite scary in its own right as It was difficult to get a placement for him at 2nd level because this was such an odd syndrome (and still is) as he didnt fit into the normal school but wasnt really bad enough for Sp ed. We opted for a special school then behavioural issues emerged and I was always getting calls from the school leaving me a nervoous wreck when the phone rang. There was also tough kids in the school and bullying was an issue too.</p><p>Now hes 22 and youngest is 15 and should be somewhat self sufficient but this BiPolar (BP) thing has been diagnosed and I am too new to it to do anythin g yet This medication thing as you know is not easy to take onboard. Need to keep follow up Apts etc</p><p>I got a great offer of a job last year almost minutes before 2nd last episode began.....my neighbour recommended me but I had to say no,,,</p><p>I just seem to be disappearing into the difficulties and whilst I always loved minding them all years ago I now know my job has changed here but I cant seem to get out!!!!! As I have also said so many people are commenting on my apparant lazziness whilst not bothering to ask whats going on here.</p><p>As so many years have gone by (22 ,,now Jen THATS SCARY!) i have little confidence </p><p> </p><p>Schools and day centres coping with our kids will never tell you to to do something for yourself as they like you on call also.</p><p>Thinking about you for tomoorrow and fingers crossed that you will manage somewhat happily to give it a bash Many HUGS!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="lizzie09, post: 229508, member: 8006"] Hello Jen I had my four sons within 7 years so for a long time it was a full time job. I did go back to my old job between the birth of my first son difficult child and the second boy who was born 13mths after first. 1986/1987 My father who had been living alone and was quite elderly at that stage came to live with us and whilst he was a gentleman it caused tension with husband and I. This made added difficulties to my situation and then 2yrs later 3rd son came along and we are back to square one again with my fathers health going slowly down hill My dad dies in 1991 and I had son no 4 in 1993. 7 yrs gap between him and difficult child. By the time I got No 4 tp school all kinds of mini difficulties were emerging with difficult child and then his diagnosis (PWS) came up when he was 11 so that was quite scary in its own right as It was difficult to get a placement for him at 2nd level because this was such an odd syndrome (and still is) as he didnt fit into the normal school but wasnt really bad enough for Sp ed. We opted for a special school then behavioural issues emerged and I was always getting calls from the school leaving me a nervoous wreck when the phone rang. There was also tough kids in the school and bullying was an issue too. Now hes 22 and youngest is 15 and should be somewhat self sufficient but this BiPolar (BP) thing has been diagnosed and I am too new to it to do anythin g yet This medication thing as you know is not easy to take onboard. Need to keep follow up Apts etc I got a great offer of a job last year almost minutes before 2nd last episode began.....my neighbour recommended me but I had to say no,,, I just seem to be disappearing into the difficulties and whilst I always loved minding them all years ago I now know my job has changed here but I cant seem to get out!!!!! As I have also said so many people are commenting on my apparant lazziness whilst not bothering to ask whats going on here. As so many years have gone by (22 ,,now Jen THATS SCARY!) i have little confidence Schools and day centres coping with our kids will never tell you to to do something for yourself as they like you on call also. Thinking about you for tomoorrow and fingers crossed that you will manage somewhat happily to give it a bash Many HUGS! [/QUOTE]
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