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difficult child's boyfriend's exgfg (mother of his children) assualted difficult child this morning~
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 382936" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Jo, I am quite sure that something along the lines of this would have happened anyway. It takes weeks to get a court date and there is all that time for the babymomma to rile herself up and go find everyone connected with E to hassle and/or assault. </p><p> </p><p>Your daughter just needs to know that the very next time this woman comes near her she is to be calm and be ready to call 911 as soon as the woman either assaults or threatens her. In quite a few states it is considered assault to threaten to hurt or kill someone. So if babymomma starts making threats difficult child needs to report them to the police. </p><p> </p><p>ALL of this will matter in court. difficult child must NOT incite babymomma to get upset or egg her on once she starts. difficult child should, of course, stand up for herself if babymomma starts something, but only enough to get away. in my opinion you need to coach her on how to handle things so that difficult child doesn't make threats or make things worse. Also what to do if she is assaulted again and cannot get away.</p><p> </p><p>Just because babymomma's new man is known to E does NOT mean he doesn't have a criminal record. It is still something he needs to check. It is surprising how many people have records that you wouldn't ever suspect. Years ago a friend and I were taking a break from studying for finals and she was showing me how to look up criminal records - we were at her husband's law office because it was the only place we could have quiet and still be able to have coffee while we studied. Just to show me she put her brother in law's name in - a man who was a bigwig in a big city near us. She was SHOCKED (so was I) to see all the things on his record - white collar stuff and domestic violence and many DUI and public intoxication things. Then she ran her own husband, because the two of them spent a lot of time together and did some financial deals together. HER husband also had a record - and she was totally unaware of it, or of the fines he paid for some of the things! Or that one weekend when he was "out of town on business" he was actually at the jail!! </p><p> </p><p>Years later when you could look up records on the internet, I looked up gfgbro (we lived in a different state than he did, and my folks were in yet another state) and he had quite a few things we knew nada about. It was pretty shocking to me. </p><p> </p><p>so do NOT assume that this guy won't have any record just because they know him!! This is info that can be very useful in custody issues.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 382936, member: 1233"] Jo, I am quite sure that something along the lines of this would have happened anyway. It takes weeks to get a court date and there is all that time for the babymomma to rile herself up and go find everyone connected with E to hassle and/or assault. Your daughter just needs to know that the very next time this woman comes near her she is to be calm and be ready to call 911 as soon as the woman either assaults or threatens her. In quite a few states it is considered assault to threaten to hurt or kill someone. So if babymomma starts making threats difficult child needs to report them to the police. ALL of this will matter in court. difficult child must NOT incite babymomma to get upset or egg her on once she starts. difficult child should, of course, stand up for herself if babymomma starts something, but only enough to get away. in my opinion you need to coach her on how to handle things so that difficult child doesn't make threats or make things worse. Also what to do if she is assaulted again and cannot get away. Just because babymomma's new man is known to E does NOT mean he doesn't have a criminal record. It is still something he needs to check. It is surprising how many people have records that you wouldn't ever suspect. Years ago a friend and I were taking a break from studying for finals and she was showing me how to look up criminal records - we were at her husband's law office because it was the only place we could have quiet and still be able to have coffee while we studied. Just to show me she put her brother in law's name in - a man who was a bigwig in a big city near us. She was SHOCKED (so was I) to see all the things on his record - white collar stuff and domestic violence and many DUI and public intoxication things. Then she ran her own husband, because the two of them spent a lot of time together and did some financial deals together. HER husband also had a record - and she was totally unaware of it, or of the fines he paid for some of the things! Or that one weekend when he was "out of town on business" he was actually at the jail!! Years later when you could look up records on the internet, I looked up gfgbro (we lived in a different state than he did, and my folks were in yet another state) and he had quite a few things we knew nada about. It was pretty shocking to me. so do NOT assume that this guy won't have any record just because they know him!! This is info that can be very useful in custody issues. [/QUOTE]
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