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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 574285" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>It sounds as if you and our parents need to have a conversation about who is paying for what and what is expected of you. You might decide on an amount you and husband feel comfortable with to be given to your parents for your daughter, or figure out a way to pay her bills yourself. I've had to do similar things and it's really always better, in my opinion, to have very clear communications about what everyone expects and what everyone is willing to do because it can go south quickly and create really bad feelings. This is already an emotional situation with loyalties shifting and breaking, so it will be prudent to figure out all of the financial stuff out quickly. Your daughter is old enough to pay for some of her own things, her choice to leave would have some consequences in that area I would imagine. Good luck with everything!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 574285, member: 13542"] It sounds as if you and our parents need to have a conversation about who is paying for what and what is expected of you. You might decide on an amount you and husband feel comfortable with to be given to your parents for your daughter, or figure out a way to pay her bills yourself. I've had to do similar things and it's really always better, in my opinion, to have very clear communications about what everyone expects and what everyone is willing to do because it can go south quickly and create really bad feelings. This is already an emotional situation with loyalties shifting and breaking, so it will be prudent to figure out all of the financial stuff out quickly. Your daughter is old enough to pay for some of her own things, her choice to leave would have some consequences in that area I would imagine. Good luck with everything! [/QUOTE]
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