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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 574338" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>If my children defiantly decided to move out, I would only pay for the very basics. If I saw grandfather handing $200 checks of MINE to my daughter, I wouldn't pay anything. That was supposed to help them with the extra bills, not be a party for your difficult child. I personally think they are enabling difficult child. Did you want them to take her? </p><p>This is very complicated, and I hope you can come to an agreement that you can all live with. I would tie it in with how your daughter is doing and how she is treating you. No respect, no cell phone, no car insurance etc. My own daughter has to help pay for those things when she is eighteen...we can't afford to continue after that. It's not a punishment for her. A lot of kids have to work, pay a little and also go to college. Not all parents can afford the endless freebies. She's lucky you can and are willing and should learn to appreciate it rather than expect it. JMO</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 574338, member: 1550"] If my children defiantly decided to move out, I would only pay for the very basics. If I saw grandfather handing $200 checks of MINE to my daughter, I wouldn't pay anything. That was supposed to help them with the extra bills, not be a party for your difficult child. I personally think they are enabling difficult child. Did you want them to take her? This is very complicated, and I hope you can come to an agreement that you can all live with. I would tie it in with how your daughter is doing and how she is treating you. No respect, no cell phone, no car insurance etc. My own daughter has to help pay for those things when she is eighteen...we can't afford to continue after that. It's not a punishment for her. A lot of kids have to work, pay a little and also go to college. Not all parents can afford the endless freebies. She's lucky you can and are willing and should learn to appreciate it rather than expect it. JMO [/QUOTE]
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