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<blockquote data-quote="dstc_99" data-source="post: 574517" data-attributes="member: 15473"><p>Thanks guys!</p><p></p><p>Hopefully I can get husband to sit down with me and lay some of these things out. I really want us on the same page before I present it all to the grandparents at therapy on the 22nd. Right now husband has been asking for time to make the decisions which I understand because he just got home to it all. At the same time that just leaves us in limbo and gives everyone time to make assumptions that could cause a rift later on.</p><p></p><p>I did not want difficult child to live with my parents. I felt they would enable her and that she should live with my in laws who not only don't have the money to enable her but also don't have the access to things she has access to with my parents. IE: no internet, no 200 channels of cable, no local spa, and they wouldn't spoil her. I was litterally put in the situation of taking my parents to court and fighting them to return my child or fight them to keep them from trying to take her back from me. Which in my opinion is freaking ridiculous! I don't beat her or abuse her in any way. She is in no danger at my house other than danger she puts herself in. Anyway enough of my venting.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="dstc_99, post: 574517, member: 15473"] Thanks guys! Hopefully I can get husband to sit down with me and lay some of these things out. I really want us on the same page before I present it all to the grandparents at therapy on the 22nd. Right now husband has been asking for time to make the decisions which I understand because he just got home to it all. At the same time that just leaves us in limbo and gives everyone time to make assumptions that could cause a rift later on. I did not want difficult child to live with my parents. I felt they would enable her and that she should live with my in laws who not only don't have the money to enable her but also don't have the access to things she has access to with my parents. IE: no internet, no 200 channels of cable, no local spa, and they wouldn't spoil her. I was litterally put in the situation of taking my parents to court and fighting them to return my child or fight them to keep them from trying to take her back from me. Which in my opinion is freaking ridiculous! I don't beat her or abuse her in any way. She is in no danger at my house other than danger she puts herself in. Anyway enough of my venting. [/QUOTE]
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