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difficult child's girlfriend emotionally abuses him and need suggestions
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<blockquote data-quote="meowbunny" data-source="post: 226962" data-attributes="member: 3626"><p>Short of killing her? Sadly, this is one your son has to deal with. You can stand by and hurt for him, you can make whatever rules you deem fit but he's going to do what he will. He is obsessed with her. Not much else will matter until he gets his lightbulb moment or she really does dump him.</p><p> </p><p>If he reacts badly after talking to her, maybe the Residential Treatment Center (RTC) could ban all contact with her. I know at my daughter's Residential Treatment Center (RTC) outside contact was very monitored. There is no way she could have talked to her best friend, let alone a boy friend.</p><p> </p><p>I really hate when someone like this comes into the life of someone we love. There's really nothing we can do but watch the train wreck and pray the injury isn't too severe. The really scary part is she can keep him hanging for years. I've seen it with a friend of mine. She's been involved with a Bahstard like this for well over 20 years. He won't marry her but makes darn sure she doesn't see anyone else or do anything that doesn't revolve around him. It really is a cruel, ugly thing to do to another human.</p><p> </p><p>I'm sorry.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="meowbunny, post: 226962, member: 3626"] Short of killing her? Sadly, this is one your son has to deal with. You can stand by and hurt for him, you can make whatever rules you deem fit but he's going to do what he will. He is obsessed with her. Not much else will matter until he gets his lightbulb moment or she really does dump him. If he reacts badly after talking to her, maybe the Residential Treatment Center (RTC) could ban all contact with her. I know at my daughter's Residential Treatment Center (RTC) outside contact was very monitored. There is no way she could have talked to her best friend, let alone a boy friend. I really hate when someone like this comes into the life of someone we love. There's really nothing we can do but watch the train wreck and pray the injury isn't too severe. The really scary part is she can keep him hanging for years. I've seen it with a friend of mine. She's been involved with a Bahstard like this for well over 20 years. He won't marry her but makes darn sure she doesn't see anyone else or do anything that doesn't revolve around him. It really is a cruel, ugly thing to do to another human. I'm sorry. [/QUOTE]
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