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<blockquote data-quote="realangel" data-source="post: 31145" data-attributes="member: 3193"><p><strong>There is no documentation from when he has tried to harm himself, nor photos..... its times like this i kick myself for not reporting more/documenting incidents. There are police records stating he assaulted me, a teacher and a child in his school last year, caused criminal damage to the home last year, plus this incident. He has threatened his sister verbally because she no longer does what he wants, she has found her voice!!</strong></p><p><strong></strong></p><p><strong>I am praying that when we move from duty SW to permancy that we have a new, older, more experienced SW who can SEE what needs to be done. This child simply CANNOT live in our home, he poses a threat to everyone in it.</strong></p><p><strong></strong></p><p><strong>School are saying that they may not be able to have him there as he is a danger, so if a specialist school cant deal with him, SW cant deal with him, what chance do we, as parents, have?</strong></p><p><strong></strong></p><p><strong>He still hasnt 'acted up' at the foster placement... but a small part of me wants him to so they can see what i have to deal with, what WE have to deal with... but then i feel that i am evil for thinking that.</strong></p><p><strong></strong></p><p><strong>All i have ever wanted is for someone to believe me, believe the nightmare i have been living for 16 years, see the fear everytime i look at him, understand that i can go on no longer. I love him dearly, he is my sonshine, but i dont like him at the moment... i cant help him and that scares me too...I feel i have failed him as his mother, that i dont deserve to be his mother</strong></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="realangel, post: 31145, member: 3193"] [b]There is no documentation from when he has tried to harm himself, nor photos..... its times like this i kick myself for not reporting more/documenting incidents. There are police records stating he assaulted me, a teacher and a child in his school last year, caused criminal damage to the home last year, plus this incident. He has threatened his sister verbally because she no longer does what he wants, she has found her voice!! I am praying that when we move from duty SW to permancy that we have a new, older, more experienced SW who can SEE what needs to be done. This child simply CANNOT live in our home, he poses a threat to everyone in it. School are saying that they may not be able to have him there as he is a danger, so if a specialist school cant deal with him, SW cant deal with him, what chance do we, as parents, have? He still hasnt 'acted up' at the foster placement... but a small part of me wants him to so they can see what i have to deal with, what WE have to deal with... but then i feel that i am evil for thinking that. All i have ever wanted is for someone to believe me, believe the nightmare i have been living for 16 years, see the fear everytime i look at him, understand that i can go on no longer. I love him dearly, he is my sonshine, but i dont like him at the moment... i cant help him and that scares me too...I feel i have failed him as his mother, that i dont deserve to be his mother[/b] [/QUOTE]
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