Completed the connors parent rating scale yesterday, he scored 3's all the way thru!! Now to see how the school scores him.
Social worker phoned today.. difficult child is refusing to see me... but of course will be expecting me to buy his credit for his mobile phone. I have decided i will NOT be buying that or anything else for him. If he doesn't want to see me or speak to me he doesn't want my money either!
On Saturday difficult child didn't get back to his placement until 2am.. he is supposed to be back by 11pm!! I don't know the details, all i know is his social worker (the young, inexperienced, temporary one) is talking to him on Friday. I have a feeling he will be placed elsewhere soon!
Tomorrow night we have a meeting with the youth offending team about his referral order. The report will be read (the one that states he is high risk of re-offending and that he is showing no remorse and feels HE is the victim)and they will decide what work they will be doing with him to stop him offending, consequential thinking etc. If he doesn't comply with the order (my understanding is) he will re-appear in court and receive a custodial sentence. in my opinion he will NOT comply. I know him too well... he has never complied. I hope he proves me wrong this time.
Thank you my online friends, for your words of support and wisdom, please continue to pray for us.
