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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 177794" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>First of all, HUGS!!!</p><p> </p><p>I think it is time to drag your husband to some counselling. It is the ONLY way y'all are going to survive the teen years with-o really messing each other up. He has already messed up your feelings.</p><p> </p><p>As husband has left this all up to you: TAKE AAWAY THE PHONE, THE ACCESS TO ANYTHING HE CAN CHARGE, THE XBOX, THE RUNESCAPE, <strong>EVERYTHING</strong>!!</p><p> </p><p>Just lock them up or get rid of them. Take them to Gamestop and sell the dang things. </p><p> </p><p>It will end the hassles in a major way. difficult child will be furious. BUT he has majorly abused his mother, which means he should not have any of these things.</p><p> </p><p>As for going on a trip to a waterpark with mom and a friend, I hate to tell you this but I can't think of a teenage boy that WOULD spend the time with his mom. I think your son was very rude, disappearing when you told him to be somewhere. THAT is something I would address. But your expectation that he would go on the rides with you is not realistic from what I have seen of 13yos. Think back to what you were like at 13. Mom is the MOST embarrassing thing, and I think it is worse for boys when a friend is there. If you wanted him to spend time with you then you should have left the friend at home. </p><p> </p><p>I am sorry.</p><p> </p><p>difficult child has had the habit of buying things for his friends in the past, hasn't he? I think it is somehting you are only going to stop by removing his access to money until he grows up some more. Maybe it should be addressed wtih a therapist?</p><p> </p><p>I really do think it is time to remove all the things he has abused from the house. He will eventually get the idea that taking $$ from mom won't be allowed. </p><p> </p><p>Hugs,</p><p> </p><p>susie</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 177794, member: 1233"] First of all, HUGS!!! I think it is time to drag your husband to some counselling. It is the ONLY way y'all are going to survive the teen years with-o really messing each other up. He has already messed up your feelings. As husband has left this all up to you: TAKE AAWAY THE PHONE, THE ACCESS TO ANYTHING HE CAN CHARGE, THE XBOX, THE RUNESCAPE, [B]EVERYTHING[/B]!! Just lock them up or get rid of them. Take them to Gamestop and sell the dang things. It will end the hassles in a major way. difficult child will be furious. BUT he has majorly abused his mother, which means he should not have any of these things. As for going on a trip to a waterpark with mom and a friend, I hate to tell you this but I can't think of a teenage boy that WOULD spend the time with his mom. I think your son was very rude, disappearing when you told him to be somewhere. THAT is something I would address. But your expectation that he would go on the rides with you is not realistic from what I have seen of 13yos. Think back to what you were like at 13. Mom is the MOST embarrassing thing, and I think it is worse for boys when a friend is there. If you wanted him to spend time with you then you should have left the friend at home. I am sorry. difficult child has had the habit of buying things for his friends in the past, hasn't he? I think it is somehting you are only going to stop by removing his access to money until he grows up some more. Maybe it should be addressed wtih a therapist? I really do think it is time to remove all the things he has abused from the house. He will eventually get the idea that taking $$ from mom won't be allowed. Hugs, susie [/QUOTE]
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