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<blockquote data-quote="DDD" data-source="post: 331138" data-attributes="member: 35"><p>Thanks for the support. Since he lived in our home for eight years it is not a typical grandson/grandparent relationship. My husband talked with him yesterday and told him IF he wants a place of his own and IF he wants to learn how to live independently then he needs to tell GFGmom that she can keep this months check (his disability check) and that's it. IF he tells his Mom that and follows thru with husband then he should be able to move into his own place April 15th. Take it or leave it.</p><p> </p><p>She has made a mint off this kid. She collected childrens disability for all the years he lived with us PLUS child support and gave us nothing. She has, to date, "borrowed" over $1800 from him from his adult disability. She took him to the "rent to own" place and showed him how to walk out with instant gratification and a debt of $800 for a computer worth $400.</p><p> </p><p>Oh yeah...husband learned yesterday that she provided a friends address so he could get food stamps because they don't send them to a family home.</p><p>Don't you love those moral values? <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /> Then she told difficult child she would buy the food stamps from him (not full value) so he would have pocket money. YEPPERS....she grew up in our home and came out of my womb. I just can't accept it yet. Good Grief! DDD</p><p> </p><p>PS: She does not have addiction issues to explain it!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DDD, post: 331138, member: 35"] Thanks for the support. Since he lived in our home for eight years it is not a typical grandson/grandparent relationship. My husband talked with him yesterday and told him IF he wants a place of his own and IF he wants to learn how to live independently then he needs to tell GFGmom that she can keep this months check (his disability check) and that's it. IF he tells his Mom that and follows thru with husband then he should be able to move into his own place April 15th. Take it or leave it. She has made a mint off this kid. She collected childrens disability for all the years he lived with us PLUS child support and gave us nothing. She has, to date, "borrowed" over $1800 from him from his adult disability. She took him to the "rent to own" place and showed him how to walk out with instant gratification and a debt of $800 for a computer worth $400. Oh yeah...husband learned yesterday that she provided a friends address so he could get food stamps because they don't send them to a family home. Don't you love those moral values? :frowny: Then she told difficult child she would buy the food stamps from him (not full value) so he would have pocket money. YEPPERS....she grew up in our home and came out of my womb. I just can't accept it yet. Good Grief! DDD PS: She does not have addiction issues to explain it! [/QUOTE]
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