hi i'm frustrated. difficult child is probably going to be held back. we have the tutors in our home yet school's only willing to give us one hour per week per subject. which is nothing with the workload that we have. kids in school do 45 min a day on each subject sometimes 2x a day. so we have literally piles and piles of work. this week, spring break is the one week we dont' have an influx of work from the school. it's like we sort of get caught up a bit than get hit with a ton of new work. so i told the tutors leave me a bunch of work, new work new topics new chapters. i said difficult child doesnt' respond well at all with me regarding schoolwork. she doesn't respond well to tutors anymore either. but i'll try my best. today it took 3 hours to get her to take a shower and get her in her seat at her desk lol. now she's had spanish infront of her umm 2hours screaming i dont' get it. meanwhile the answers are on the sheet to the left. i told her you had better wake up little girl. do the work or do the 6th grade in september. your choice. she's like a two year old sits there cries carries on, all just attention seeking bs. tutors did a report on her behavior during sessions, the two most challenging subject tutor wrote needs constant redirection, doesnt' take initiative, is constantly running to bathroom all bad junk. she's in avoidance mode therapist has taught me it's how she handles it all, she is extremely verbal doesnt internalize yet avoids life.