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<blockquote data-quote="hearts and roses" data-source="post: 102428" data-attributes="member: 2211"><p>We filed a report at the police station. After difficult child told the officer the story, he asked difficult child, "So, what do you want me to do?"</p><p></p><p>I was floored. And I was only allowed in the room with difficult child because she said so - otherwise the officer said I wasn't allowed to speak. I didn't care, after a while I interjected important facts. Also, difficult child kept looking at me for thoughts. She would be talking and then forget her train of thought - she was so nervous. I was pretty annoyed at the officer. I mean, if a young girl comes in complaining that she is being stalked and harrasses don't you think the officer should take it seriously unless otherwise indicated? Finally, I said to him, "Surely you can understand why we're concerned about this young man? After all he's been basically stalking my daughter for over a year and he hasn't given up. Every day you open the paper and see another story about a young woman killed by an obsessed person such as this." He seemed to have some kind of recognition and nodded. difficult child was NOT happy with what I said because it freaked her out a little. </p><p></p><p>It finally hit her that what frightened her the most about the stalker was what she DIDN'T know he'd do, Know what I mean?? Up until tonight she was afraid, but she was more annoyed. She finally said that she is not sure what he's capable of and now she's scared that he will take it to another level (she said that before we spoke with the police). After we spoke with the police officer, I asked him what we do next and he said we come back in a WEEK to pick up a copy of the report and take it into Hartford to get a restraining order. WTH? A WEEK? At least she won't be at sharper image where he can go inside and harrass her I guess. The officer said they do NOT question the stalker or investigate at all. And I'm thinking, then why are we wasting our time here? </p><p></p><p>My coworker saw the stalker standing outside Sharper Image during her lunch break. Ugh = I must have just missed him! </p><p></p><p>Lisa, H never made the phone call to find out where he lives because he wanted to see what the police would say first. I am going to encourage him to call that guy tomorrow. I'm so at a loss and aggravated.</p><p></p><p>So now difficult child is unemployed and although we've made a police report, we basically have gotten nowhere. The system stinks. The police officer was so rude I thought. What is up with that?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearts and roses, post: 102428, member: 2211"] We filed a report at the police station. After difficult child told the officer the story, he asked difficult child, "So, what do you want me to do?" I was floored. And I was only allowed in the room with difficult child because she said so - otherwise the officer said I wasn't allowed to speak. I didn't care, after a while I interjected important facts. Also, difficult child kept looking at me for thoughts. She would be talking and then forget her train of thought - she was so nervous. I was pretty annoyed at the officer. I mean, if a young girl comes in complaining that she is being stalked and harrasses don't you think the officer should take it seriously unless otherwise indicated? Finally, I said to him, "Surely you can understand why we're concerned about this young man? After all he's been basically stalking my daughter for over a year and he hasn't given up. Every day you open the paper and see another story about a young woman killed by an obsessed person such as this." He seemed to have some kind of recognition and nodded. difficult child was NOT happy with what I said because it freaked her out a little. It finally hit her that what frightened her the most about the stalker was what she DIDN'T know he'd do, Know what I mean?? Up until tonight she was afraid, but she was more annoyed. She finally said that she is not sure what he's capable of and now she's scared that he will take it to another level (she said that before we spoke with the police). After we spoke with the police officer, I asked him what we do next and he said we come back in a WEEK to pick up a copy of the report and take it into Hartford to get a restraining order. WTH? A WEEK? At least she won't be at sharper image where he can go inside and harrass her I guess. The officer said they do NOT question the stalker or investigate at all. And I'm thinking, then why are we wasting our time here? My coworker saw the stalker standing outside Sharper Image during her lunch break. Ugh = I must have just missed him! Lisa, H never made the phone call to find out where he lives because he wanted to see what the police would say first. I am going to encourage him to call that guy tomorrow. I'm so at a loss and aggravated. So now difficult child is unemployed and although we've made a police report, we basically have gotten nowhere. The system stinks. The police officer was so rude I thought. What is up with that? [/QUOTE]
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