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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 432244" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Hey, I have a friend of a friend who is a veterinary surgeon. She does small animal surgery only - no routine vet stuff. Her husband does large animal surgery and teaches at the vet school here. I bet we could get her to do the surgery. heck when a mutual friend's son kept getting ear infections the family dog suddenly got a lot of zpacks (zithromax), largely because friend did not want to drag kid to doctor - and because the same thing for a dog was cheaper than for a human. I am sure she could do the surgery - and botch it in some way that would prevent a reversal!</p><p></p><p>This chick would have been out of my house after the baby that lived a few hours. My family is nuts and might have despised me for it, but they could go and raise her kids for her. I cannot IMAGINE even MY mother putting up with all that from gfgbro or I. Someone needs to report to the OB?GYN that this woman needs to be drug tested and tested for alcohol at EVERY visit. In many places they will at least try to lock you up for the duration of the pregnancy if you have 2 or more positive drug tests. This TERRIFIED my exsil no end. The solution to stay clean was just too much work for her. </p><p></p><p>I am sorry that you are dragged into the periphery of this. It is a situation that YOU must detach from. Your friend is making choices to stay this enmeshed with the family. She can choose to move far away with the girls and not let anyone visit. It would likely be the best for everyone - the relatives would get firsthand knowledge of how awful Numby is. She may lie as well as Gumby bends, but left with-o the mom to blame it on every day I bet some of the family clue in. Even if they don't clue in, it would be the best thing for the little girls - because NOTHING is harder than to have your mom not want you and someone keep trying to force her to want you. That girl KNOWS her mother cannot stand her and every single time the gma pushes Numby to care for her, it rips the heart and soul and self esteem out of the girl. </p><p></p><p>Maybe you need a break from this friend. Esp if she is trying to push these girls on you as your grandkids.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 432244, member: 1233"] Hey, I have a friend of a friend who is a veterinary surgeon. She does small animal surgery only - no routine vet stuff. Her husband does large animal surgery and teaches at the vet school here. I bet we could get her to do the surgery. heck when a mutual friend's son kept getting ear infections the family dog suddenly got a lot of zpacks (zithromax), largely because friend did not want to drag kid to doctor - and because the same thing for a dog was cheaper than for a human. I am sure she could do the surgery - and botch it in some way that would prevent a reversal! This chick would have been out of my house after the baby that lived a few hours. My family is nuts and might have despised me for it, but they could go and raise her kids for her. I cannot IMAGINE even MY mother putting up with all that from gfgbro or I. Someone needs to report to the OB?GYN that this woman needs to be drug tested and tested for alcohol at EVERY visit. In many places they will at least try to lock you up for the duration of the pregnancy if you have 2 or more positive drug tests. This TERRIFIED my exsil no end. The solution to stay clean was just too much work for her. I am sorry that you are dragged into the periphery of this. It is a situation that YOU must detach from. Your friend is making choices to stay this enmeshed with the family. She can choose to move far away with the girls and not let anyone visit. It would likely be the best for everyone - the relatives would get firsthand knowledge of how awful Numby is. She may lie as well as Gumby bends, but left with-o the mom to blame it on every day I bet some of the family clue in. Even if they don't clue in, it would be the best thing for the little girls - because NOTHING is harder than to have your mom not want you and someone keep trying to force her to want you. That girl KNOWS her mother cannot stand her and every single time the gma pushes Numby to care for her, it rips the heart and soul and self esteem out of the girl. Maybe you need a break from this friend. Esp if she is trying to push these girls on you as your grandkids. [/QUOTE]
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