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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 432473" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>Susie* - I haven't talked to "adopted" daughter in probably over three years. I haven't talked to this friend in uuh......probably over a year. So this was really a shocker. I'm telling you when I say I do NOT socialize with people or have friends to my house - I'm not kidding. I haven't had a girlfriend AT my house in nearly ten years. I have "friends" that I see once in a while when I go out to the stores and such - but nope......and THIS is why. Too much BS. and I will love this girl forever and I'd be there for any of my friends if they called. But I'm not getting INVOLVED with this mess. I was all over being the gma when the first baby was born and died. Then when the next one was born I was right there, and held her and OH she was so wonderful and to stand back and see what this NUMBY (love that) did - You can't kill someone, so I just backed off. Then she got pregnant again, and it was insane how she treated the infant and when she literally said "I just don't think I can love this one - YOU take her." and was more interested in running around and screwing guys than taking care of the first two kids? I was done. Her Mother would NOT listen and started raising BOTH girls, and I was banging my head on the wall. Not worth it. Now? Like Witz said - SHE has done this TO HERSELF - and WHY SHOULD Numby take responsibility for ANYTHING??// </p><p> </p><p>For eight years - EIGHT LONG years - every cough, practically every diaper, doctor visit, cold, fever, - everything - GRANDMA has done it for her - so now? Two MORE babies sounds like a breeze. And who gets the MERIT for having four kids? Numby. Not Grandma. makes me want to spit. Nails. But then - at who? No one listens. So now EVERYONE pays. Two baby girls grow up being raised by Grandma - TWO more are going to grow up being raised by Goodness knows who - Here you have a 30 years old Mother who has NO clue how to do this, and will EXPECT and demand her Mom does it. Mom is like - I will not be there. I'm leaving - and then what? What about the two she's raising? They just supposed to depend on Numby? Numbys going to have 2 newborns......I feel so badly for all of the kids. Then the extra attention that the 8 and 5 year old WERE getting they're NOT going to get and how is that going to make THEM feel? Abandoned. Unloved, not so special any more. I have no clue. I just know - that this whole group is in need of some serious intervention - but they won't get it - things will progress like they are - my friend will be raising 2 newborns by October or September. </p><p> </p><p>And me? I'm not going anywhere near there. I'll just get a text and reply - CONGRATULATIONS. Too bad you can't text that little Whoopdedoo emoticon from the board.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 432473, member: 4964"] Susie* - I haven't talked to "adopted" daughter in probably over three years. I haven't talked to this friend in uuh......probably over a year. So this was really a shocker. I'm telling you when I say I do NOT socialize with people or have friends to my house - I'm not kidding. I haven't had a girlfriend AT my house in nearly ten years. I have "friends" that I see once in a while when I go out to the stores and such - but nope......and THIS is why. Too much BS. and I will love this girl forever and I'd be there for any of my friends if they called. But I'm not getting INVOLVED with this mess. I was all over being the gma when the first baby was born and died. Then when the next one was born I was right there, and held her and OH she was so wonderful and to stand back and see what this NUMBY (love that) did - You can't kill someone, so I just backed off. Then she got pregnant again, and it was insane how she treated the infant and when she literally said "I just don't think I can love this one - YOU take her." and was more interested in running around and screwing guys than taking care of the first two kids? I was done. Her Mother would NOT listen and started raising BOTH girls, and I was banging my head on the wall. Not worth it. Now? Like Witz said - SHE has done this TO HERSELF - and WHY SHOULD Numby take responsibility for ANYTHING??// For eight years - EIGHT LONG years - every cough, practically every diaper, doctor visit, cold, fever, - everything - GRANDMA has done it for her - so now? Two MORE babies sounds like a breeze. And who gets the MERIT for having four kids? Numby. Not Grandma. makes me want to spit. Nails. But then - at who? No one listens. So now EVERYONE pays. Two baby girls grow up being raised by Grandma - TWO more are going to grow up being raised by Goodness knows who - Here you have a 30 years old Mother who has NO clue how to do this, and will EXPECT and demand her Mom does it. Mom is like - I will not be there. I'm leaving - and then what? What about the two she's raising? They just supposed to depend on Numby? Numbys going to have 2 newborns......I feel so badly for all of the kids. Then the extra attention that the 8 and 5 year old WERE getting they're NOT going to get and how is that going to make THEM feel? Abandoned. Unloved, not so special any more. I have no clue. I just know - that this whole group is in need of some serious intervention - but they won't get it - things will progress like they are - my friend will be raising 2 newborns by October or September. And me? I'm not going anywhere near there. I'll just get a text and reply - CONGRATULATIONS. Too bad you can't text that little Whoopdedoo emoticon from the board. [/QUOTE]
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