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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 432935" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>I'm sure few here would understand redneck logic - but this family is so pathetically enmeshed it is going to be hard for me to explain. I lived with them for a short period of time and I do mean short. Like 2 weeks short -and that was 13 days longer than I will ever, EVER live with them again. </p><p> </p><p>"Daddy" is a wonderful man. His Daddy somehow inherited a homestead and managed to hang on to it. There is approximately 20 acres give or take and believe me with three daughters, two Grandsons and one Granddaughter it's ALL take. Now at one time? And you do the math. All of them had homes (single wides) on this land INCLUDING his Father, and Daddy's wife's Mother, and then one of Daddy's 12 brothers moved his trailer out there and his second wife's daughter that she gave brith to while she was married to him, but the child was not his - was raised as an adopted Granddaughter. Following so far? So all told with husbands and boyfriends, and children, parents and the like at one time -there were nearly 40 people living in nine trailer houses on ten acres - the rest was wooded. Okay - </p><p> </p><p>So Great Granddaddy dies - and leaves his trailer to my girlfriend. Then Great Grandmamma dies and leaves her trailer to my girlfriend's sister and her boyfriend. The Other sister and her husband finally move out of Daddy's house and get their own place with their three children. You can do the math but at one time - Four married couples (or the likes thereof) and five children shared a 3 bedroom single wide - for years. I mean! Anyway = </p><p> </p><p>Eventually - The middle sister and her boyfriend move out, and got Great Grandmammas trailer - so they're happy and my girlfriend (remember she got Great Granddaddys place?) well she gave that to her daugther and like a moron bought a double wide with some guy she met on the internet who turned out to be....(oh this just gets better and better) a cross dressing homosexual who was abusive, with a wife and two kids in Canada....and he had bad credit and lost his job so she got stuck in an upside down mortgage and then we lost "our' son - (the oldest child I lost to bull riding) and that almost killed us both. He was her biological child - but called me Mom and lived at my place every chance he got - ANY IDEA WHY? ugh. So whey my girlfriend was going to loose her house - her sister bought that one - and by chance - (now this gets tricky so follow along) The oldest sister who moved out with her husband and 3 kids......well HIS Mother and Father got a divorce because his Father came home from work one afternoon and caught his wife in bed wtih another woman. Turns out they'd been having an affair for years.....but it cost her her house and her seat on the town council - and anyway - she called Daddy - and after the divorce all she could afford was a small trailer so Daddy let her put it on his land - and her girlfriend dumped her because of threats the ex husband kept making. And the husband went to live permanently with his son and daughter in law (my girlfriend's sister). Wow - what a mess huh? </p><p> </p><p>Well after the gay grandma got back on her feet she figured she wasnt really gay after all - she just was taking a walk on her wild side and met a fella and moved in with him. So she sold her trailer to my girlfriend for cheap cheap - In the mean time - the trailer my girlfriend had given to HER daughter - (Numby) was so old (from like the 50's) it was falling apart and condemned. But she was moving in with another guy anyway - so my girlfriend moved into the not-gay grandmas /now her trailer until Numby trashed her double and a half wide house with the WONDERFUL man who adored her kids, and worked a great job and loved her - but he came home one afternoon to find HER in bed with another guy - and so he threw HER out - and she came back to the 10 acre woods - and her mom (my girlfriend) moved in with her sister and her husband - and Numby and the girls moved in girlfriend's house, and then they trashed it - and Numby moved out and in with another guy - and girlfriend cleaned it up, rented it out and moved Numby in with her and Sister.....and that's where she is now - wanting the bigger bedroom wtih the master bath suite - because she deserves it because she's going to have babies (2) to take care of. and we all know - that's a crock - but everyone is so down on my girlfriend - that I told my girlfriend - she should SELL the former gay Grandma now her - trailer - except girlfriend said - WHO in their RIGHT mind would move in the middle of that nut job meadow? (true) And so her only hope is to rent it out to someone who ENJOYS having people IN their business..24/7 and minding their life. So I suggested SHE find someone who is in a similar situation and SWAP - lol. She said that was just nutty enough to work. Or rent it out to someone who actually CAN handle her family - (doubtful such a person exists) and take the rent money and go get a room somewhere - BEFORE the babies are born otherwise she's doomed. </p><p> </p><p>And that is why my friend had a heart attack and will probably never move. I think in a sick way - she likes being told what to do, and wouldn't know what to do if a day of peace came her way. not joking. They all feed off each others frenzy - and chaos. Never in my life have I seen ANYTHING like it. One time HER Mom got in my business - and it started with me being polite and then her Mom started with poking and it ended with "are you done?" and after that and for the rest of my life I have not and never will start a sentence with "Listen here old woman....and end it with do you completely understand me because I don't intend to repeat anything I just said." and got absolutely NO response other than a nod. Dog cornered the wrong mad coon up the wrong tree that night. But - as it worked out - next day? We are just fine and she sends me a Christmas card every year. And vice versa. </p><p> </p><p>Anywho - that's life in Peedee country -</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 432935, member: 4964"] I'm sure few here would understand redneck logic - but this family is so pathetically enmeshed it is going to be hard for me to explain. I lived with them for a short period of time and I do mean short. Like 2 weeks short -and that was 13 days longer than I will ever, EVER live with them again. "Daddy" is a wonderful man. His Daddy somehow inherited a homestead and managed to hang on to it. There is approximately 20 acres give or take and believe me with three daughters, two Grandsons and one Granddaughter it's ALL take. Now at one time? And you do the math. All of them had homes (single wides) on this land INCLUDING his Father, and Daddy's wife's Mother, and then one of Daddy's 12 brothers moved his trailer out there and his second wife's daughter that she gave brith to while she was married to him, but the child was not his - was raised as an adopted Granddaughter. Following so far? So all told with husbands and boyfriends, and children, parents and the like at one time -there were nearly 40 people living in nine trailer houses on ten acres - the rest was wooded. Okay - So Great Granddaddy dies - and leaves his trailer to my girlfriend. Then Great Grandmamma dies and leaves her trailer to my girlfriend's sister and her boyfriend. The Other sister and her husband finally move out of Daddy's house and get their own place with their three children. You can do the math but at one time - Four married couples (or the likes thereof) and five children shared a 3 bedroom single wide - for years. I mean! Anyway = Eventually - The middle sister and her boyfriend move out, and got Great Grandmammas trailer - so they're happy and my girlfriend (remember she got Great Granddaddys place?) well she gave that to her daugther and like a moron bought a double wide with some guy she met on the internet who turned out to be....(oh this just gets better and better) a cross dressing homosexual who was abusive, with a wife and two kids in Canada....and he had bad credit and lost his job so she got stuck in an upside down mortgage and then we lost "our' son - (the oldest child I lost to bull riding) and that almost killed us both. He was her biological child - but called me Mom and lived at my place every chance he got - ANY IDEA WHY? ugh. So whey my girlfriend was going to loose her house - her sister bought that one - and by chance - (now this gets tricky so follow along) The oldest sister who moved out with her husband and 3 kids......well HIS Mother and Father got a divorce because his Father came home from work one afternoon and caught his wife in bed wtih another woman. Turns out they'd been having an affair for years.....but it cost her her house and her seat on the town council - and anyway - she called Daddy - and after the divorce all she could afford was a small trailer so Daddy let her put it on his land - and her girlfriend dumped her because of threats the ex husband kept making. And the husband went to live permanently with his son and daughter in law (my girlfriend's sister). Wow - what a mess huh? Well after the gay grandma got back on her feet she figured she wasnt really gay after all - she just was taking a walk on her wild side and met a fella and moved in with him. So she sold her trailer to my girlfriend for cheap cheap - In the mean time - the trailer my girlfriend had given to HER daughter - (Numby) was so old (from like the 50's) it was falling apart and condemned. But she was moving in with another guy anyway - so my girlfriend moved into the not-gay grandmas /now her trailer until Numby trashed her double and a half wide house with the WONDERFUL man who adored her kids, and worked a great job and loved her - but he came home one afternoon to find HER in bed with another guy - and so he threw HER out - and she came back to the 10 acre woods - and her mom (my girlfriend) moved in with her sister and her husband - and Numby and the girls moved in girlfriend's house, and then they trashed it - and Numby moved out and in with another guy - and girlfriend cleaned it up, rented it out and moved Numby in with her and Sister.....and that's where she is now - wanting the bigger bedroom wtih the master bath suite - because she deserves it because she's going to have babies (2) to take care of. and we all know - that's a crock - but everyone is so down on my girlfriend - that I told my girlfriend - she should SELL the former gay Grandma now her - trailer - except girlfriend said - WHO in their RIGHT mind would move in the middle of that nut job meadow? (true) And so her only hope is to rent it out to someone who ENJOYS having people IN their business..24/7 and minding their life. So I suggested SHE find someone who is in a similar situation and SWAP - lol. She said that was just nutty enough to work. Or rent it out to someone who actually CAN handle her family - (doubtful such a person exists) and take the rent money and go get a room somewhere - BEFORE the babies are born otherwise she's doomed. And that is why my friend had a heart attack and will probably never move. I think in a sick way - she likes being told what to do, and wouldn't know what to do if a day of peace came her way. not joking. They all feed off each others frenzy - and chaos. Never in my life have I seen ANYTHING like it. One time HER Mom got in my business - and it started with me being polite and then her Mom started with poking and it ended with "are you done?" and after that and for the rest of my life I have not and never will start a sentence with "Listen here old woman....and end it with do you completely understand me because I don't intend to repeat anything I just said." and got absolutely NO response other than a nod. Dog cornered the wrong mad coon up the wrong tree that night. But - as it worked out - next day? We are just fine and she sends me a Christmas card every year. And vice versa. Anywho - that's life in Peedee country - [/QUOTE]
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