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Discussion: difficult children - Setting Boundaries vs Accomodations
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<blockquote data-quote="DaisyFace" data-source="post: 515648" data-attributes="member: 6546"><p>It sounds for the most part like the parents on this board share my views - it is reasonable to expect a bedroom to be kept in a sanitary condition (a little clutter is OK) and if a child needs prompting and reminders, that's OK, too.</p><p></p><p>I guess the fact that I even had to ask goes to show how far off the rails some of this "professional therapy" has taken us. EVERYTHING must revolve around the child and their wants and their emotional needs. If they want to keep dirty plates in their bedroom - hey, that's their business and Mom and Dad need to respect their privacy. After they have received enough consideration and respect, they will be motivated to bring all the dirty plates back to the kitchen on their own.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DaisyFace, post: 515648, member: 6546"] It sounds for the most part like the parents on this board share my views - it is reasonable to expect a bedroom to be kept in a sanitary condition (a little clutter is OK) and if a child needs prompting and reminders, that's OK, too. I guess the fact that I even had to ask goes to show how far off the rails some of this "professional therapy" has taken us. EVERYTHING must revolve around the child and their wants and their emotional needs. If they want to keep dirty plates in their bedroom - hey, that's their business and Mom and Dad need to respect their privacy. After they have received enough consideration and respect, they will be motivated to bring all the dirty plates back to the kitchen on their own. [/QUOTE]
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