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<blockquote data-quote="TerryJ2" data-source="post: 178392" data-attributes="member: 3419"><p>Thank you.</p><p> </p><p>The two older boys have the boyfriend's SS#. I am emailing them to remind them to give it to me. They say they will do something with-it but I know they'll chicken out again. </p><p> </p><p>I agree, I would love to see this guy's visited websites. I think this guy brought his own laptop but I will ask that in the email as well.</p><p> </p><p>It turns out that it's better and worse than I thought.</p><p> </p><p>C. left 26 treats for her youngest, hidden around the house. He was supposed to find one every day until she gets home. So that indicates that she really does intend to come home the 2nd wk in Aug.</p><p> </p><p>We went to dinner and the boys really gave us an earful. The middle one has a girlfriend and it was a bit stilted at first ... we didn't know how much she knew. But once they got talking, they just didn't stop, and she wasn't phased at all so obviously she knew all about it.</p><p> </p><p>Then the middle son's cell ph rang and it was C. We all froze. (You know how guilty you feel when you've been talking about someone and there they are?) The conversation was very stiff, like, "Yeah. Hi. We're having dinner with-the X's. Here's B." and he hands the ph to his little bro. Little bro says, "Hi. Yeah. I found it. It was a Sprite. # 11. Okay. Bye."</p><p></p><p>Arrrgh.</p><p> </p><p>So, apparently, Gigolo boyfriend has tried emotional blackmail on all the boys and it has backfired. The oldest won't speak to him at all so that's part of the reason he was served an eviction notice. Middle son (just turned 21) had car issues one day and stopped by the property where boyfriend is living. boyfriend tells him to come in and he wants to talk. boyfriend, C (Who was apparently sleeping over?), and middle son sit at table and boyfriend demands that middle son apologize for hurting boyfriend's feelings and for being rude. Middle son says he doesn't know what he's talking about. C (mom) just sits there. Middle son says he can't apologize when he doesn't know what's going on. boyfriend gets more upset. Finally, middle son says he won't apologize, and will find his own ride back to p/u his car. How weird is that?</p><p> </p><p>Near the same time period, boyfriend pulls same stunt with-14-yr-old. He, too, refuses to apologize, stating he doesn't know what boyfriend is talking about. </p><p> </p><p>Just to clarify this, the 14-yr-old is not only homeschooled and sheltered, he is very small for his age and his voice hasn't changed yet. So it's almost like talking to an 8-yr-old. I cannot imagine a 50-something guy trying to intimidate a teenage boy into apologizing for an imagined slight while the mom sits silently by.</p><p> </p><p>I couldn't help it. I blurted out loudly at the table, "This is giving me the CREEPS!!!"</p><p>(So much for being mature and supportive. But at least I validated their emotions.)</p><p> </p><p>Then the oldest and middle son add, blithely, "Oh, we forgot to tell you he has taken anger mgmnt classes for some issues he has."</p><p> </p><p>AAAARRRRRRRGGGGG!!!</p><p> </p><p>We asked the 14-yr-old, jokingly, if he wanted to come live with-us. He nodded his head vigorously and said, "YES!" I laughed and said, "You haven't seen me when I have PMS and I'm not wearing makeup." (Much to easy child's embarrassment.) He laughed and said, "Anything's better than S."</p><p>His custodial brother nodded and agreed.</p><p> </p><p>Whew.</p><p> </p><p>We asked if there was anything we could do in the meantime. They said no, they have their mom's credit card and lots of candy. And one another.</p><p> </p><p>OMG. That is so sad.</p><p> </p><p>Well, I'm off in search of boyfriend's SS#. I am h*llbent on finding some background on him.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="TerryJ2, post: 178392, member: 3419"] Thank you. The two older boys have the boyfriend's SS#. I am emailing them to remind them to give it to me. They say they will do something with-it but I know they'll chicken out again. I agree, I would love to see this guy's visited websites. I think this guy brought his own laptop but I will ask that in the email as well. It turns out that it's better and worse than I thought. C. left 26 treats for her youngest, hidden around the house. He was supposed to find one every day until she gets home. So that indicates that she really does intend to come home the 2nd wk in Aug. We went to dinner and the boys really gave us an earful. The middle one has a girlfriend and it was a bit stilted at first ... we didn't know how much she knew. But once they got talking, they just didn't stop, and she wasn't phased at all so obviously she knew all about it. Then the middle son's cell ph rang and it was C. We all froze. (You know how guilty you feel when you've been talking about someone and there they are?) The conversation was very stiff, like, "Yeah. Hi. We're having dinner with-the X's. Here's B." and he hands the ph to his little bro. Little bro says, "Hi. Yeah. I found it. It was a Sprite. # 11. Okay. Bye." Arrrgh. So, apparently, Gigolo boyfriend has tried emotional blackmail on all the boys and it has backfired. The oldest won't speak to him at all so that's part of the reason he was served an eviction notice. Middle son (just turned 21) had car issues one day and stopped by the property where boyfriend is living. boyfriend tells him to come in and he wants to talk. boyfriend, C (Who was apparently sleeping over?), and middle son sit at table and boyfriend demands that middle son apologize for hurting boyfriend's feelings and for being rude. Middle son says he doesn't know what he's talking about. C (mom) just sits there. Middle son says he can't apologize when he doesn't know what's going on. boyfriend gets more upset. Finally, middle son says he won't apologize, and will find his own ride back to p/u his car. How weird is that? Near the same time period, boyfriend pulls same stunt with-14-yr-old. He, too, refuses to apologize, stating he doesn't know what boyfriend is talking about. Just to clarify this, the 14-yr-old is not only homeschooled and sheltered, he is very small for his age and his voice hasn't changed yet. So it's almost like talking to an 8-yr-old. I cannot imagine a 50-something guy trying to intimidate a teenage boy into apologizing for an imagined slight while the mom sits silently by. I couldn't help it. I blurted out loudly at the table, "This is giving me the CREEPS!!!" (So much for being mature and supportive. But at least I validated their emotions.) Then the oldest and middle son add, blithely, "Oh, we forgot to tell you he has taken anger mgmnt classes for some issues he has." AAAARRRRRRRGGGGG!!! We asked the 14-yr-old, jokingly, if he wanted to come live with-us. He nodded his head vigorously and said, "YES!" I laughed and said, "You haven't seen me when I have PMS and I'm not wearing makeup." (Much to easy child's embarrassment.) He laughed and said, "Anything's better than S." His custodial brother nodded and agreed. Whew. We asked if there was anything we could do in the meantime. They said no, they have their mom's credit card and lots of candy. And one another. OMG. That is so sad. Well, I'm off in search of boyfriend's SS#. I am h*llbent on finding some background on him. [/QUOTE]
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