Here of late, K's husband M has been emailing me videos and picts he takes of the kids. In fact he sent me a cute video of Kayla and Alex last night. So I thought nothing when I saw 2 emails from him just a short while ago. I open it and there is no message, but a photo attachment. (usual for him) The photo consist of their hotel room and Kayla standing off a ways wearing a towel. So.......I thought perhaps he was trying to catch Evan streaking buck naked again. I know M took the picture because his arm was in front of the camera too. I click into the 2nd email. No message. Photo attachment. I open it again to find a picture of the hotel room......and Kayla standing there buck naked from the neck down. Frontal view....and yes, it's a tad blurry but you can see everything. WTH? This guy is most definately mega difficult child. Evan if picture was snapped of Kayla by accident while trying to catch Evan........M had to see what it was when he attached it to the email. And people.......I'm giving the guy an ENORMOUS benefit of the doubt by assuming he was trying to snap a picture of streaking Evan during bath time. K is nowhere to be seen in either picture. Could be bathing one of the other kids, may be out running an errand. I find this disturbing on so many levels right down to my marrow. Ok. So they're cramped in a motel room with just a bath. Even so I'll tell you that at almost 9 yrs old my husband would've never seen his girls nude. I'd have forced them to change in the bathroom. So in my opinion she shouldn't even have been in the same room with him in that state. Let alone having her picture taken! I'm praying for an email from K to explain these 2 pics........and praying the explaination is believable. But I'm not counting on either. I have a feeling K doesn't know they were sent at all, let alone taken. And I suspect they might have been sent to me by mistake. These are not cute baby pics of naked buns. This is a nearly 9 year old girl. Grandma's do not want to see pics of this of their grandaughters. I'm hesitant to email K and ask as I don't know if he knows her email password. And if this email was not meant for me, I don't want to tip him off. There is more to the K, M, and grandkids picture than I'm getting over the phone and web. It's been making me uneasy for a while now.....I've just been waiting for it to play out as I didn't have enough to come to any actual conclusions. Just suspicions. And I have been trying hard to give M a full fledge chance, truly I have. Even if I have had to repeat to myself that K obviously had to have seen something *good* about the guy in order to be with him. But dang it to hades.......I'm really struggling to like the guy. REALLY. He wasn't too bad when I met him here. But online......he is so over the top now that I cringe when he talks on the videos with the kids. And there was an incident a few months back that I filed away in my brain because there was nothing I could do about it. It was during our Sunday phone call. We'd been talking for a while. And Kayla loves to talk, she'll talk your ears off. Evidently, K left the kids with M during the phone call to go to laundry. (a common thing) Suddenly instead of a perky 8 yr old chatting happily about her day.........I get a drastic change over the phone of an absollutely terrified child who tells me in an unmistakable shaking voice that she has to get off the phone now. The dread in her voice frightened me. I heard M in the background in and undertone telling her to come to him. It is hard at this distance to know what is really going on. So I'm doing my best not to jump to conclusions. K doesn't seem aware......or is not giving any indication she is. I've taken forever typing this post in hopes of an email from K. Nothing. D*mn. So? What do I do? What do you guys think?