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Do I confide in my friend?
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<blockquote data-quote="Woriedmom" data-source="post: 628582" data-attributes="member: 18061"><p>Thank you all for your reply's. This friend of mine has actually known my son since he was a little boy of 5 years old. However I just realized if we don't want him living in our house as his parents...why in the world would they want my son living with them? unless of course my son wants to change. Yesterday she offered him the bedroom and I was prepared to tell her about his substance abuse and the 2 upcoming trials when my son declined their offer. This sort of lets me know he is still using and is not willing to stop. Is it okay for me to tell my son he might want to go ahead and confide in them anyway? only because the father has been a spokesperson for N/A in the past and may still have the credentials to show the judge that my son has been trying to improve himself by living in this mans care.? Then again they may not want the hassle. His court date is in 2 months and he WILL be standing trial. Once the judge sees that my son has been arrested twice before even starting his probation ( if given that ) I think he will place my son in jail if he doesn't show the judge that he's been trying to improve himself. Anyway, I realize the ultimate choice is my sons and that if he does want to take my friends offer, he would have to tell them about what's going on or I will. But can anyone tell me if the judge will see my son as getting help with my friends father since he was a N/A speaker for their meetings?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Woriedmom, post: 628582, member: 18061"] Thank you all for your reply's. This friend of mine has actually known my son since he was a little boy of 5 years old. However I just realized if we don't want him living in our house as his parents...why in the world would they want my son living with them? unless of course my son wants to change. Yesterday she offered him the bedroom and I was prepared to tell her about his substance abuse and the 2 upcoming trials when my son declined their offer. This sort of lets me know he is still using and is not willing to stop. Is it okay for me to tell my son he might want to go ahead and confide in them anyway? only because the father has been a spokesperson for N/A in the past and may still have the credentials to show the judge that my son has been trying to improve himself by living in this mans care.? Then again they may not want the hassle. His court date is in 2 months and he WILL be standing trial. Once the judge sees that my son has been arrested twice before even starting his probation ( if given that ) I think he will place my son in jail if he doesn't show the judge that he's been trying to improve himself. Anyway, I realize the ultimate choice is my sons and that if he does want to take my friends offer, he would have to tell them about what's going on or I will. But can anyone tell me if the judge will see my son as getting help with my friends father since he was a N/A speaker for their meetings? [/QUOTE]
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