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Do people choose who they love?
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<blockquote data-quote="muttmeister" data-source="post: 337912" data-attributes="member: 135"><p>I definitely think it's at least partly a choice. I think you can "fall in lust" without much choice but I think that to really love somebody it is partly a conscious choice. Part of it is probably unconscious (that may be what gets your attention in the first place) but I've always thought that a lot of it is a mind set of just being READY to "fall in love." There are times when you are just to busy, angry, sick, uninterested, etc. to fall in love with anybody and even if the perfect person presented himself to you then, I don't think you'd take the time to fall in love. Real love takes time and work and it does take a conscious decision on your part to follow through on a promising beginning.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="muttmeister, post: 337912, member: 135"] I definitely think it's at least partly a choice. I think you can "fall in lust" without much choice but I think that to really love somebody it is partly a conscious choice. Part of it is probably unconscious (that may be what gets your attention in the first place) but I've always thought that a lot of it is a mind set of just being READY to "fall in love." There are times when you are just to busy, angry, sick, uninterested, etc. to fall in love with anybody and even if the perfect person presented himself to you then, I don't think you'd take the time to fall in love. Real love takes time and work and it does take a conscious decision on your part to follow through on a promising beginning. [/QUOTE]
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