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Do people choose who they love?
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<blockquote data-quote="totoro" data-source="post: 337995" data-attributes="member: 3155"><p>I think for me and with my issues as well, I chose to let the wall down with husband and found after that I actually could fall in love.</p><p></p><p>Prior to that I had many relationships, but they were BiPolar (BP)/PTSD relationships, most of you will get it and some of you have lived it. </p><p>They were desperate, needy, hurtful most times ugly and not very loving.</p><p></p><p>Jeff was the first person I let in and then got to know, I did it all backwards. But, at that point in my life I felt I was either not going to be in a relationship at all or it had to have something more.</p><p>We also spent the first year traveling to see each other- he had to leave for 3 months and then we came back together to see if there was still something there. </p><p></p><p>I think I chose to let love into my life. I think I had to let trust in as well. But I also would not have bothered if I didn't know in my heart that he wasn't worth the effort. </p><p></p><p>I still feel this way every part of me.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="totoro, post: 337995, member: 3155"] I think for me and with my issues as well, I chose to let the wall down with husband and found after that I actually could fall in love. Prior to that I had many relationships, but they were BiPolar (BP)/PTSD relationships, most of you will get it and some of you have lived it. They were desperate, needy, hurtful most times ugly and not very loving. Jeff was the first person I let in and then got to know, I did it all backwards. But, at that point in my life I felt I was either not going to be in a relationship at all or it had to have something more. We also spent the first year traveling to see each other- he had to leave for 3 months and then we came back together to see if there was still something there. I think I chose to let love into my life. I think I had to let trust in as well. But I also would not have bothered if I didn't know in my heart that he wasn't worth the effort. I still feel this way every part of me. [/QUOTE]
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