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<blockquote data-quote="hearts and roses" data-source="post: 338028" data-attributes="member: 2211"><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkslateblue">I think by nature we are 'drawn' to people we are comfortable with...that have aspects of either all our past relationships collectively OR their personalities are in line with those around us growing up. I can see a little bit of each of my boyfriends from earlier in my life in H every once in a while. Not the whole persons, but bits from each. </span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkslateblue">After you find yourself interested in a particular person, I think chemistry/attraction comes into play and then a choice to take the relationship a step further.</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkslateblue">Also, I agree with GN said about how the relationship changes over time, sometimes with the addition of chilren or lackthereof, sometimes due to health issues or job changes. At those points, I think there is more choice involved, because as we all know any one of those events could cause a real shift in a relationship and it needs special attention. In comes the opportunity for choice.</span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearts and roses, post: 338028, member: 2211"] [SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslateblue]I think by nature we are 'drawn' to people we are comfortable with...that have aspects of either all our past relationships collectively OR their personalities are in line with those around us growing up. I can see a little bit of each of my boyfriends from earlier in my life in H every once in a while. Not the whole persons, but bits from each. [/COLOR][/SIZE] [SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslateblue][/COLOR][/SIZE] [SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslateblue]After you find yourself interested in a particular person, I think chemistry/attraction comes into play and then a choice to take the relationship a step further.[/COLOR][/SIZE] [SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslateblue][/COLOR][/SIZE] [SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslateblue]Also, I agree with GN said about how the relationship changes over time, sometimes with the addition of chilren or lackthereof, sometimes due to health issues or job changes. At those points, I think there is more choice involved, because as we all know any one of those events could cause a real shift in a relationship and it needs special attention. In comes the opportunity for choice.[/COLOR][/SIZE] [/QUOTE]
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