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Do people choose who they love?
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<blockquote data-quote="mstang67chic" data-source="post: 338445" data-attributes="member: 2459"><p>I'm with everyone else....yes and no.</p><p></p><p>No, I don't think it's a choice on who makes our heart do that little flip but it IS a choice for what you do with that flip. I'm also in agreement with Janet on this....we may choose to be hetero but I truly believe that we are hard wired to be attracted to one or both sexes. Again though, the choice is in whether we act on those attractions one way or the other. </p><p></p><p>Like other's have said, the long term takes effort, work and commitment....<strong><u>that</u></strong> is a choice. It doesn't just happen. </p><p></p><p>Also, it is a choice to follow through or even leave. Even when the love is there, if the other person isn't good for you or the situation and things aren't going to change, if you're strong enough, you choose to leave or change the situation. Sometimes love just isn't enough.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="mstang67chic, post: 338445, member: 2459"] I'm with everyone else....yes and no. No, I don't think it's a choice on who makes our heart do that little flip but it IS a choice for what you do with that flip. I'm also in agreement with Janet on this....we may choose to be hetero but I truly believe that we are hard wired to be attracted to one or both sexes. Again though, the choice is in whether we act on those attractions one way or the other. Like other's have said, the long term takes effort, work and commitment....[B][U]that[/U][/B] is a choice. It doesn't just happen. Also, it is a choice to follow through or even leave. Even when the love is there, if the other person isn't good for you or the situation and things aren't going to change, if you're strong enough, you choose to leave or change the situation. Sometimes love just isn't enough. [/QUOTE]
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