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Do they just want to destroy their mamma?
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<blockquote data-quote="Kathy813" data-source="post: 652460" data-attributes="member: 1967"><p>Hi LMS. I think it may be time for you to cut off all contact from your sons for a while. My therapist has helped me understand that unconditional love does not mean unconditional boundaries. Your sons are hurting you and you need to put up those boundaries until they understand that you will not take that kind of treatment anymore.</p><p></p><p>My husband and I have finally told our daughter and her therapist that we don't want to be in the loop anymore. We have cut off contact for now. It is my greatest hope that we can reestablish contact and build a better relationship but it will not happen until our Difficult Child understands and respects our boundaries.</p><p></p><p>I wish I had DDD's words of wisdom. I miss her, too.</p><p></p><p>~Kathy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Kathy813, post: 652460, member: 1967"] Hi LMS. I think it may be time for you to cut off all contact from your sons for a while. My therapist has helped me understand that unconditional love does not mean unconditional boundaries. Your sons are hurting you and you need to put up those boundaries until they understand that you will not take that kind of treatment anymore. My husband and I have finally told our daughter and her therapist that we don't want to be in the loop anymore. We have cut off contact for now. It is my greatest hope that we can reestablish contact and build a better relationship but it will not happen until our Difficult Child understands and respects our boundaries. I wish I had DDD's words of wisdom. I miss her, too. ~Kathy [/QUOTE]
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