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<blockquote data-quote="1905" data-source="post: 578342" data-attributes="member: 2668"><p>Janet that stinks. You're not the only one who fights with husband. My husband is this manly man type who believes woman need to stay in the kitchen and do everything in the house. That would be nice, but then wouldn't that mean he works and I don't? So I do get mad at him for not helping me. Now that the kids are gone, it's easier because they were my "job". He didn't take an interest in homework, dr. appointment's....he can't understand it, his dad left his mom when he was 4 and his mom did EVERYTHING so that's what he thinks a woman does. But his mom was mentally ill and never fed them or washed clothes...they stole cigs to sell so they could buy cake and that was dinner.</p><p></p><p>In our house we love each other and I have a lot of outside interests, he doesn't. He would rather me be at home for no reason and that is a fight usually because I am active and do things, but alone usually.I love some alone time so I'm happy. I just ignore that part of him, so do the kids. They all come to me when they want to tell me something awesome or have a problem. Nothing is a bad problem, we can work it out. I feel bad for the man because he gets so much respect at work but none here, he just thinks he's some grand poo-bah. That's just his personality. I decided to marry him when I was 15. It was worth it because I wouldn't have my kids.</p><p></p><p>I don't mean I always ignore him, but I only respond to kindness. I do feel like I'm his mommy or his nurse. We do both have a lot in common. We both have a sick sense of humor and we laugh a lot. This may sound strange but we curse a lot...every other word out of our mouths is the F word, nobody would guess this about me, him maybe, (and the kids too). We are alike in so many ways and I love him to death. We fight but make up in 2 seconds, we curse but it means nothing and we laugh. The dynamics are what they are, it's both of us, I don't want to paint him as a bad guy.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="1905, post: 578342, member: 2668"] Janet that stinks. You're not the only one who fights with husband. My husband is this manly man type who believes woman need to stay in the kitchen and do everything in the house. That would be nice, but then wouldn't that mean he works and I don't? So I do get mad at him for not helping me. Now that the kids are gone, it's easier because they were my "job". He didn't take an interest in homework, dr. appointment's....he can't understand it, his dad left his mom when he was 4 and his mom did EVERYTHING so that's what he thinks a woman does. But his mom was mentally ill and never fed them or washed clothes...they stole cigs to sell so they could buy cake and that was dinner. In our house we love each other and I have a lot of outside interests, he doesn't. He would rather me be at home for no reason and that is a fight usually because I am active and do things, but alone usually.I love some alone time so I'm happy. I just ignore that part of him, so do the kids. They all come to me when they want to tell me something awesome or have a problem. Nothing is a bad problem, we can work it out. I feel bad for the man because he gets so much respect at work but none here, he just thinks he's some grand poo-bah. That's just his personality. I decided to marry him when I was 15. It was worth it because I wouldn't have my kids. I don't mean I always ignore him, but I only respond to kindness. I do feel like I'm his mommy or his nurse. We do both have a lot in common. We both have a sick sense of humor and we laugh a lot. This may sound strange but we curse a lot...every other word out of our mouths is the F word, nobody would guess this about me, him maybe, (and the kids too). We are alike in so many ways and I love him to death. We fight but make up in 2 seconds, we curse but it means nothing and we laugh. The dynamics are what they are, it's both of us, I don't want to paint him as a bad guy. [/QUOTE]
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