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<blockquote data-quote="Shari" data-source="post: 358698" data-attributes="member: 1848"><p>in an ugly witchy situation that they can't weasle out of? Isn't it so much fun?</p><p> </p><p>Actual text from a text conversation I just had with cultured difficult child and her mom.</p><p> </p><p>Cultured difficult child "Can I come back to mom's on Sunday early for a birthday party? At 11?"</p><p> </p><p>Me "Dad says no. We have a family deal on Sunday."</p><p> </p><p>Cgfg "What kind of family deal?"</p><p> </p><p>Me "A family dinner. Gma and Gpa are coming in. Normally he doesn't care, but this one is a big deal."</p><p> </p><p>(long pause)</p><p> </p><p>Cgfg's mom "It doesn't matter to me but she was just wanting to go with us and you always say she should be able to decide what she wants to do."</p><p> </p><p>Me " Yes, that is the way it should bemost of the time. This is Nephew's going away party. He's leaving for the air force. All the family is coming in to get together on Sunday. husband has never outright told cgfg no and he wouldn't care if it was just a random family dinner. If you disagree that the going away party trumps the birthday party, call and we'll talk."</p><p> </p><p>Cgfg's mom "I was not saying that she shouldn't go to the going away party. If you thought that's what I said, sorry. <strong>I just wanted to know if she would be coming home later than usual."</strong></p><p> </p><p>Me "It sounded that way. He's never told her no with-o a reason. We weren't planning for her to be late. Message when you are heading home and we'll have her there at 6 or whenever you get back after that."</p><p> </p><p>After a very, very long delay, she replied "OK". Which means, she knows she's busted. BECAUSE....it is not ok for us to keep cgfg past 6pm if she is not home and we have not arranged with her in advance (and I just said 'we'll keep her til you get there' - which never flies). If mom is not home, we are to rid ourselves of cgfg because "our time is up". We have to leave her at grandma's. Normally, this reply from me would be met with "leave her at mom's at 6 if we're not home." Always is.</p><p> </p><p>Yeah...she just wanted to know if cgfg was coming home late...what ever.</p><p> </p><p>Interesting, also, how she cares that cgfg should be able to pick where she wants to be NOW. How many times has she wanted to stay with us and mom said "no" cause she'd already been here enuf?</p><p> </p><p>(not that I want her, particularly, this weekend, but...this is what I deal with.)</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Shari, post: 358698, member: 1848"] in an ugly witchy situation that they can't weasle out of? Isn't it so much fun? Actual text from a text conversation I just had with cultured difficult child and her mom. Cultured difficult child "Can I come back to mom's on Sunday early for a birthday party? At 11?" Me "Dad says no. We have a family deal on Sunday." Cgfg "What kind of family deal?" Me "A family dinner. Gma and Gpa are coming in. Normally he doesn't care, but this one is a big deal." (long pause) Cgfg's mom "It doesn't matter to me but she was just wanting to go with us and you always say she should be able to decide what she wants to do." Me " Yes, that is the way it should bemost of the time. This is Nephew's going away party. He's leaving for the air force. All the family is coming in to get together on Sunday. husband has never outright told cgfg no and he wouldn't care if it was just a random family dinner. If you disagree that the going away party trumps the birthday party, call and we'll talk." Cgfg's mom "I was not saying that she shouldn't go to the going away party. If you thought that's what I said, sorry. [B]I just wanted to know if she would be coming home later than usual."[/B] Me "It sounded that way. He's never told her no with-o a reason. We weren't planning for her to be late. Message when you are heading home and we'll have her there at 6 or whenever you get back after that." After a very, very long delay, she replied "OK". Which means, she knows she's busted. BECAUSE....it is not ok for us to keep cgfg past 6pm if she is not home and we have not arranged with her in advance (and I just said 'we'll keep her til you get there' - which never flies). If mom is not home, we are to rid ourselves of cgfg because "our time is up". We have to leave her at grandma's. Normally, this reply from me would be met with "leave her at mom's at 6 if we're not home." Always is. Yeah...she just wanted to know if cgfg was coming home late...what ever. Interesting, also, how she cares that cgfg should be able to pick where she wants to be NOW. How many times has she wanted to stay with us and mom said "no" cause she'd already been here enuf? (not that I want her, particularly, this weekend, but...this is what I deal with.) [/QUOTE]
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